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Freeloader?

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Potsy123 · 03/01/2025 11:15

Hi everyone, so something has been bothering me …. I am a single mum of four on universal credit and have been with a guy for almost five years now (still live separately) I haven’t got a huge income whereas the man I’m with has a very decent salary. He comes to my house and doesn’t bring anything to contribute food wise (sometimes stays for three nights eating my food etc) the other day he brought a pack of sausages… we didn’t end up eating them and so he took them back with him when he left …. I’m a little gobsmacked and not sure how to address it. I feel used and it’s quite in my face and so not sure what to say when it happens (this has happened before with other food!!) any advice would be appreciated!

OP posts:
Lampzade · 26/03/2025 04:29

Hope Op has got rid of this man

Ownyourchoices · 26/03/2025 04:34

Why do women put up with this? BIN

Blackkittenfluff · 26/03/2025 04:35

Oh bin.
Cocklodger.

WhyCantTheyJustBeKids · 26/03/2025 17:51

Eww, no. What a toad. And after 5 years? No... dump the whole man.

BellissimoGecko · 26/03/2025 18:06

Have you ever called him out and pointed out how unfair and right he’s being? What did he say?

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