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New year's text message to another woman

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parker06 · 01/01/2025 08:23

My husband messaged another woman just after midnight new year's eve that he is proud of her. Already had some history with her, inappropriate things which ilhe told me he was over. Is telling someone there proud of them something a friend or more a lover does?

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parker06 · 05/01/2025 11:21

Thewookiemustgo · 05/01/2025 10:33

I’m glad you’ve reached a decision that you are happy with. It’s a brave one and a tough one, but a decision that eventually will serve you very well.
Give yourself time to grieve what you’ve lost, it’s a big adjustment and change in your life and you need to be kind to yourself. On the days you miss him (you very probably will, you can’t just switch these things off) remember why you did this and remember who he really is, not who you wish he was.
Wishing you all the best for the future and you will always be glad that you chose to put yourself first and chose to fight for your own integrity and mental health. Best wishes for a bright future!

Thank you, you've really helped me Be in the better position that I am

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Youngheartsalittletogetherness · 05/01/2025 12:14

Mn can be a nippy place at times
It's great when wise advice is doled out and even better when acted upon.
Well done op and mums netters advice that helped op get there.😍

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