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I feel doomed - single mum deserve love?

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Fizzylemon6 · 21/12/2024 05:25

I am a single mother and I believe I deserve happiness and the opportunity for me and my child to have a fresh start give them more siblings and have a family .

I constantly see narratives like don’t date single mums. Step parents can’t love a child who isn’t theirs, like there own or children are more likely to be abused with a step parent around.

It just makes me feel like what’s the point and undeserving. I never intended to become a single mother, but society makes it feel like we are the rubbish on the street side with no value or use.

what’s peoples views and experience on being a a single mum or a step parent, creating a blended family. Or just the topic in general would like to hear lots of perspectives.

OP posts:
Arancia · 03/05/2025 06:47

No one "deserves" or is entitled to love as love is not a reward for good behaviour, morals, personality, etc. It's a matter of luck whether you find someone to love, and who loves you back.

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