Told me he fell out of love with me due to my cancer treatments changing me temporarily, for him to be having an affair with a 19 year old (pregnant!!!!) junior at work. The baby is not his, I know that.
Told me I needed mental help urgently because I started recording him when he would abuse me, telling me that I made him like this.
Broke up with me, said to me he needed to have sex as his balls hurt because I had made him celibate. He said if I had sex with him he would be back with me. I did (I was 18..) and as soon as be nut he told me he made a terrible mistake.
Told a work colleague that 'he could provide a pole for her to slide down.' If she wanted. She declined.
Fingered his affair woman in the disabled toilet at work, while I was fighting for my life in ICU in heart failure.
Left me at home miscarrying, also had an abscess on my infected wisdom tooth, and dealing with a 2 year old. I was quite literally writhing around in pain, he went out and got drunk. And didn't come home.
I had a seizure, I was home alone with our toddler. He thought I was faking it and carried on getting drunk in town. Ambulance turned up as I called them, he then turned up with his tail between his legs. Paramedics reported him to SS and that's when I made my plan to leave.
He left me in hospital to go and meet OW, with our daughter in tow.
Sponged off me financially, wracked up debts which ended up with bailiffs at my door.
Self announced that he had EUPD and he is getting help and we would end up bag together.
Sexually assaulted me, and also recorded me during sex without my consent.
I'll leave that there, I am stronger, happier, financially free and healthy with my little girl.
It's a rough world out there, I will never let a man back into my life like that ever again.