Why is not asking me out?

[Minnie5002]

I’ve been dating this guy for more than 4 months. He keeps saying he’s going to make me his girlfriend soon but hasn’t. Do you think there is a reason for this ?

we get along really well, it’s like we are in a relationship already. Just to clarify I haven’t pushed him at all the make it official

I can’t even assume this is a relationship otherwise he wouldn’t say about making me his girlfriend eventually ?

Why are you leaving it up to him to choose you. F**k that for a game of marbles. Dig deep, find your inner goddess. Become the person who does the choosing.

If he doesn't want to be exclusive, then throw him over board. And never give away your power again to someone who makes empty promises.

Stop wasting your time. He doesn't want to commit to you.

He doesn’t want to say he’s committed to you because he’s speaking to/seeing other women.

if he’s caught he can say to you that it’s ok because you’re not in a relationship.

he’s stringing you along and not treating you with respect.

bin him off.

Agree. How can anyone be arsed with this nonsense?

I’m either with you or I’m not. None of this ‘are we exclusive’ BS but then I’m old and I won’t tolerate games.