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How old were you and how long of a relationship were you in before you got married?

128 replies

whosaoife04 · 19/11/2024 00:23

Out of curiosity

OP posts:
Carseatcarq · 19/11/2024 04:40

First marriage - very on/off relationship from age 22/23 after being out of a proper relationship for maybe 3 months, eventually married 9 years later for convenience/legal reasons. Divorced after a year.
Less than a year after that met new partner who I've been with consistently for 7 years and engaged now at age 39.

SweetBaklava · 19/11/2024 04:40

Met at 33, married at 36, DC1 at 37, DC2 at 39.

Caffeineneedednow · 19/11/2024 04:44

37, been with DP 11 years, already have a house 2 kids and a stepson. We're getting married next month. We may have done things outside the traditional order 🤷‍♀️

MrsCatE · 19/11/2024 05:08

Met at 22. Married at 22. Left at 35. Divorce took 4 years because of his procrastination. Met and married MrCat; despite previous experience!

Hadalifeonce · 19/11/2024 05:10
  1. 10 months
Katandra9 · 19/11/2024 05:19

Together at 15
Engaged at 18
Married at 22
Still Together at 40

Katandra9 · 19/11/2024 05:19

Together at 15
Engaged at 18
Married at 22
Still Together at 40

Simonjt · 19/11/2024 05:22

Met in April 2019, married exactly two years later in April 2021. We were 26 and 31 when we met, 28 and 33 when got married, then 29 and 33 when our daughter came home.

BeingATwatItsABingThing · 19/11/2024 05:27

Met 2012, started going out 2013, engaged 2015, married 2018. Were 30 and 33.

Whatanidiot123 · 19/11/2024 05:31

Met at 25, married at 37. Coming up to 20 years together now. We had originally planned to get married 5 years earlier but family objected to our plans to elope. We deprioritized it for a while then finally got on with it!

coffeesaveslives · 19/11/2024 07:31

Met at 27, married at 29.

EmotionalSupportBiscuit · 19/11/2024 07:39

Got together at 20.

Married at 39 - didn’t ever feel it was a priority or that important to get married!

Early 50s now, married 13 years but together for over 30, no kids.

Smittenkitchen · 19/11/2024 07:40

I was 31 and we'd been together for 7 years, 1 DC of 11mo.

fourelementary · 19/11/2024 07:42

1st time around- Married young but had been together 5 years (high school sweethearts)

2nd time was early 30s, together less than a year before we married. Together still nearly 20 years on!

Completelyjo · 19/11/2024 07:43

28 and 10 years.

EmmaEmEmz · 19/11/2024 07:48

Engaged 8 years, had four kids together and I was 35

Changingagang · 19/11/2024 07:50

Met at 16 , married at 21 . 20 years ago now

BilboBlaggin · 19/11/2024 07:53

Met when I was 20 and he was 19. Married when I was 26. I'm now 61 and he sadly passed away this year from illness.

ApolloandDaphne · 19/11/2024 07:53

Met when he was 18 and i was 19. We married at 21 and 22. Still married now almost 40 years later.

WaystarRoy · 19/11/2024 07:55

Met at 30
Married at 33
DD1 at 35
DD2 at 37
Still together at 59

Neurodiversitydoctor · 19/11/2024 07:56

Met at 22&23, baby at 28 &29, married at 29&31.Together 26 years.

CamillaCanterbaum · 19/11/2024 07:56

Married at 23
Together just short of 5 years by that time

11 years married this year and 16 years together now 💓

ByHardyRubyEagle · 19/11/2024 07:57

Met when I was 19 nearly 20, got married at 27, currently 34 expecting DC no.2

Pumpkincozynights · 19/11/2024 07:57

Dh asked me to marry him just short of 2 years after meeting. Married 3 years almost to the day after first meeting.
We had both said we would not marry again, second marriage for both of us.

SofandaCox · 19/11/2024 07:58

Met when I was 25 and we was 32. Married and had a baby a year later. Still very happy and in love 5 years later.