My dp has a problem sticking to any kind of person al hygiene routine.
He never brushes his teeth unless I make him, he once went 2 weeks without doing this. I hate kissing him when he doesn't brush his teeth, in fact I won't let him come to bed sometimes cos his breath is bad
He never bathes or showers unless I make him, he last had a shower last friday.
Well, we had sexx a couple of nights ago, and now I have raging thrush. It came on mmediatly afterwards. I told him I had it, But he hasn't been using the cream, he says he doesn't need to cos he hasn't noticed anything wrong.
I feel that the state my body is in doesn't matter at all to him as long as he is comfortable. He doesn't care if he smells so bad it is keeping me awake, as long as he doesn't have to take 20 minutes out of his bloody day to have a shower.
I am so miserable, I am crying my eyes out here, he won't talk about it, refuses to discuss it and this is the worst case of thrush I have ever had, sorry to be explicit, but the discharge is yellow and it really hurts.
I really feel like I don't matter at all to him, I am just a machine for ensuring his life runs smoothly.......
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My dp has given me thrush again.
mardynow · 07/01/2005 01:33
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