My husband and I have been a bit rocky recently.
Things have started to get better and I felt like we were both making an effort and we were getting along much better.
Without giving too much information we've been having more sex lately and trying stuff we hadn't before (nothing crazy, spanking and things).
Anyway. Last night he was talking about it and randomly asked me how I knew I liked it. Said I didn't know, I just didn't then he asked if I'd done anything like this before.
I instantly got a bit awkward and embarrassed as I wasn't expecting him to ask me and also I don't want to talk about my previous boyfriends and sex life with him.
I panicked and said none of your business.
He instantly got really cross and started saying you need to tell me what you've done or else I'm thinking the worst.
I told him but also tried to change the subject and didn't want to give much away as I knew it would annoy him and I was embarrassed.
He kept saying just answer the question. Then got really cross and called me a fucking slag. Started saying that he had a right to know what I'd done before him as he would divorce me if I'd been a "slag" before him.
I got very upset and told him he can't speak to me like that. How would he like it if someone spoke to our daughter that way. He said she wouldn't be a moron.
He said I don't deserve the way he's treated me before (so we'll apparently but he has called me names before).
He later asked for sex and I told him no. I was upset and he hasn't even apologised.
Still hadn't. Just blamed me for pushing him to it by not answering the question straight.
I'm just gutted. Everytime I try and make things better he has some kind of outburst which he blames me for.
Just want a husband who respects me and doesn't call me a slag for God sake.
If he didn't want to know, why ask? And I can't help what's happened before him. He always says he wishes I was a virgin when we met. Makes me like I'm not good enough.