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Adultwork, i need as much information as possible

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NavySloth · 07/05/2024 20:58

Hello,

i will try to cut this story short. I recently found my husband activity with adultwork. I was able to login and acces emails saying about lasts logins and also his username for the website. Its came as a complete shock. After more digging i found out about more of the website. Later on when i confronted him about this, he was just lying to my face as never happened, total denial. I have some screenshots of things i found, i was also able to login to the app. If anyone know more then me please let me know. I found 2 bookings with escorts, just really wanna know if these booking were actually went ahead because he said he did not meet them. I also saw a hot list, there were many girls but i also saw saying’’recently interacted with’’ what does it mean? I do beleive he deleted maybe some of his bookings before handed the phone to me but i also know by others, many people making bookings by phone calls. Any information would be much appreciated.
and sorry for any misspelling English isn’t my first language. Thank you for the answers in advance.

Adultwork, i need as much information as possible
Adultwork, i need as much information as possible
Adultwork, i need as much information as possible
OP posts:
PixiePirate · 22/10/2024 06:01

The men who post on these threads made my flesh crawl. Graciously dropping in to bestow upon us their ‘perspective’ and mansplain the purchase of consent and all their excuses for husbands cheating on their (in this case, pregnant) wives. I wonder if they’re just pathetic, socially inept loners in real life too, or if they’re actually getting their rocks off to the sexual elements of the posts.

OP, I’m really sorry to hear that your husband has behaved like this. Madness lies in trying to get to the bottom of what did or didn’t take place though. You deserve to feel safe, secure, respected and happy as an absolute minimum in any relationship.

Zoeonoh · 25/10/2024 02:49

I myself used to be on adult work as a webcam model and understand the site.
So the men make the booking and book the escort, time price outcall, in call etc and then the escort calls or messages back the client with their post code and phone number or if the call the man gets their number but some men just message via the site because of their wives and the escort looks out for the messages then gives their door number when the client is outside. Most escorts do it this way to prevent robbery. As they get people robbing them often. So after the booking both parties usually leave the other person feedback, so try and see if you can see his feedback then you can see if they actually met . The hot list is for the client to save girls he likes or cam girls he wants to watch while wanking. Some men use the site to talk dirty to women and watch them undress or talk about forbidden things and talk the talk about escort meets but never actually go through with bookings. Also loads of punters book meets and don’t show up or loose their bottle. There’s also an inbox with messages on the site see if you can see he’s messages back and fourth and check his bank statements for him buying credits and camming with girls. But AW does not come up as adult work on bank statements it comes up as something else. Hope that helps. X

RichTea90 · 25/10/2024 03:24

Is there any way that you can check his phone log?

it looks to me as though he’s messaged, providing his number, but there’s no way of knowing from that site if it went ahead. If he got a phone call, it’s highly likely he was confirming it. Also bank statements. Did he withdraw £100 cash? Etc etc.

Sorry OP

The very fact that he’s even gone to these lengths to search for escorts indicates the end of a relationship to me. It’s even worse that you were pregnant at the time. What an absolute scumbag of a man.

RichTea90 · 25/10/2024 03:29

Btw, how old is your husband? Looking at the ages of the women on his hot list, one is 26… I know it’s legal of course, but feels so young to me, yuck

Slalomsfathoms · 25/10/2024 06:00

Zoeohno, what would it come up as on bank statements and what sort of prices?

Charlouise22 · 04/12/2024 23:21

Click in the woman's profile as he will have had to wrightgva review for them

Charlouise22 · 04/12/2024 23:24

Hi darling you need to click the woman's profile and look at her reviews as he would have wrote one for her if he has met up and also men will deny it they have no backbone or front but if you know his user namit will appear on her reviews

Charlouise22 · 04/12/2024 23:28

Also if you can get into his adult work profile you can go into the recent activity to see if he has interacted with online cam to cam and another look at his accounpersonal details it will tell you how much he has spent online with them I know it is wrong and do not agree with me doing that but the female that is giving a service is innocent as she is just making a living but if you look at the female profile it will tell ya the reviews if you k ow his user name you will see what services was offered and the expieriamce

sprigatito · 04/12/2024 23:29

Zombie thread

Charlouise22 · 04/12/2024 23:31

It depends which company on adult work they work with

Charlouise22 · 04/12/2024 23:34

You are 100 percent right,and I agree with this lady xx

Granarchy · 12/01/2025 21:58

Well my husband paid for sex in folding readies. £120 per hour, usually.
the shirt he took off cost more than that
But he is REALLY sorry, and he’ll NEVER do it again, right?

TheNavyRaven55 · 15/01/2025 11:55

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Margherita12 · 17/01/2025 07:18

Hello, I found this on my partner phone. He tell me hi didn’t been there. How can I trust? She left him feedback how is that possible?

Adultwork, i need as much information as possible
Margherita12 · 17/01/2025 07:20

Hello, I found this on my partner phone. He tell me hi didn’t been there. How can I trust? She leave her feedbacks. How is that possible?

Adultwork, i need as much information as possible
alldayeveryday247 · 17/01/2025 09:08

Margherita12 · 17/01/2025 07:20

Hello, I found this on my partner phone. He tell me hi didn’t been there. How can I trust? She leave her feedbacks. How is that possible?

Edited

Not possible, no.

He's paid for sex with a worker otherwise she wouldn't be able to provide feedback.

Sorry.

Iaminthefly · 17/01/2025 09:09

@Margherita12 Your husband has gone through with a booking and been left feedback by the escort. The escort would not have left the feedback without a meet

The number next to your husbands AW username will show you all his other feedback if you click on it.

I'm so sorry

Margherita12 · 17/01/2025 09:32

My husband says that hi payd for but hi changed his mind because hi couldn’t do that to me. On his profile shows three feedback from a woman. How is that possible?

alldayeveryday247 · 17/01/2025 09:36

Margherita12 · 17/01/2025 09:32

My husband says that hi payd for but hi changed his mind because hi couldn’t do that to me. On his profile shows three feedback from a woman. How is that possible?

Well as we've said, it's not possible 🤷🏻‍♀️

He's lying to you.

Bumblebeestiltskin · 17/01/2025 09:38

Margherita12 · 17/01/2025 09:32

My husband says that hi payd for but hi changed his mind because hi couldn’t do that to me. On his profile shows three feedback from a woman. How is that possible?

It's not possible.

Margherita12 · 17/01/2025 09:40

S-o, that means hi went?

Margherita12 · 17/01/2025 09:43

He says because hi didn’t been there for the booking his account should be restricted that’s why she left him feedback.

Margherita12 · 17/01/2025 09:47

Hi says that hi saw her on camera only not met her

MissScarletInTheBallroom · 17/01/2025 09:52

Your partner is disgusting and you should dump the fucker.

Mareleine · 17/01/2025 09:53

Margherita12 · 17/01/2025 09:43

He says because hi didn’t been there for the booking his account should be restricted that’s why she left him feedback.

And why would he care if his account to buy sex was restricted? He shouldn't even have an account to buy sex. C'mon OP he's lying to you.

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