Am I wrong to feel angry? Him and his football friends are all in their 40’s, early 50s and the thought of him gawping at all the girls upsets me. In my own opinion I think the intention is still the same as if he were to go somewhere and pay someone to take their clothes off lol.
He says he wants to go just for the “food and drink” and nothing else 🤨 yeah right!
I have spoken to him about it and told him how much it would upset me going there and he said he would go and find a Wetherspoons on his own 🤣🤣 but I don’t really believe that and think he is just saying that to make me quiet.
Am I being unreasonable?
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AIBU to be upset that my husband wants to go to Hooters
MuddyPaws1993 · 28/03/2024 09:34
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MuddyPaws1993 · 28/03/2024 09:47
@pitchfever Yes. We have worked through that but every time we do there’s something else that pops up 🙄 Am I just being stupid and insecure?
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MuddyPaws1993 · 28/03/2024 09:47
@pitchfever Yes. We have worked through that but every time we do there’s something else that pops up 🙄 Am I just being stupid and insecure?
WildFlowerBees · 28/03/2024 09:50
Hooters is crap, the boneless bites are nice, it's not Spearmint Rhino! Ugly American tan tights with orange shorts and yes tight orange tops. I don't think you have anything to worry about from them but your dh sounds like a bit of a letch.
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MuddyPaws1993 · 28/03/2024 09:47
@pitchfever Yes. We have worked through that but every time we do there’s something else that pops up 🙄 Am I just being stupid and insecure?
MuddyPaws1993 · 28/03/2024 09:47
@pitchfever Yes. We have worked through that but every time we do there’s something else that pops up 🙄 Am I just being stupid and insecure?
WillYouPutYourCoatOn · 28/03/2024 09:53
This. Hooters is actually pretty lame. I wouldn't be bothered by it, purely because the outfits might have been a bit more "ooh la la" twenty years ago, but now it's no different to what you see a lot of people wear day to day in the summer. Less the lurid tights.
As PP says, this is should be last on your list of things to be worried about.
WildFlowerBees · 28/03/2024 09:50
Hooters is crap, the boneless bites are nice, it's not Spearmint Rhino! Ugly American tan tights with orange shorts and yes tight orange tops. I don't think you have anything to worry about from them but your dh sounds like a bit of a letch.
brunettemic · 28/03/2024 10:18
Specifically answering the Hooters question, I don’t and have never seen the issue with it to be honest. There’s no more flesh on display than and average night out in a city centre, or even during the day sometimes (maybe not this time of year!). A friend of a work colleague has a daughter that worked there at uni and she apparently loved it.
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MuddyPaws1993 · 28/03/2024 09:47
@pitchfever Yes. We have worked through that but every time we do there’s something else that pops up 🙄 Am I just being stupid and insecure?
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