Calling Madamez and any other sex experts - What is normal for a woman's sexual peak?

[TooHornyForMyHubby]

Not really sure where to start here. Basically, I am horny as hell and can't really understand where it has all come from.

I am 29 and suddenly I just want sex anytime, any place. And not just any old sex, but a dirty, lustful kind of sex.

Fortunately, most of this attention is focused on my husband. I still fancy the pants off him. The problem is that he has never had a very high sex drive. In the past we have just about muddled through, but now I just want it so much more than him.

The sex we have is fantastic and I'd love to have more of it, but as that ain't happening my mind is starting to wander.

Is this kind of sexual peak at all normal for a woman?!?!?

Get thee some Viagra, woman. Not for you, for your dh.

Buy a vibrator?

I thought viagra was just for erection problems??? Does it actually increase desire?
Hubby doesn't have any erection problems

Who cares? It'll be how you want it to be!!

I thought women peaked at 34. Maybe you are have peaked early. Maybe you're just warming up!

get some zinc down him. Strawberries?

No no no to vibrator. This is not just a 'I want orgasms' kind of thing. It's a lusting after blokes kind of thing. Generally, I do still lust after my hubby even after 12 years together.

However, like I said about my mind wandering. I'm not quite past it yet and can still pull some pretty tasty men if I go out with my mates. I never have, but lately I'm just not getting enough at home IYSWIM???

There is one very tasty bloke in particular who I know has a bit of a crush on me.

I don't feel anything for him in an emotional way, but he is gorgeous and I really am tempted to give him a right good seeing to. I am trying so hard to reign this feeling in.

WTF is happening to me!?!??!?

Does your husband act like he still fancies you?

You say you don't want 'just orgasms'...isn't that what you would get if you slept with this other guy?

Or is it the feeling of being desired that you are missing?

Maybe you need another baby. That'll calm you down a bit

I had this last year at 35.

The only new thing was that I got a coil fitted, and could have sex without worrying about pregnancy.
Did you by any chance get a coil?

Oh, and I had a couple of steroid injections.
Did you?

I went to lovehoney, and bought quite a lot. ... It is not the same as real in the flesh sex, but it did the trick.

How often do you have sex and how often would you like to have it?
It sounds like the husband isn't sexual enough. Is he overweight? Does he get enough exercise? Does he eat junk food?

Yes, I think you've hit the nail on the head. It's the feeling of being desired.

I think hubby still fancies me and I think he enjoys the sex that we have, but it is nearly always me initiating it and I think he just takes me for granted.

What I want is really lustful sex and I'm pretty sure that's what I would get with this other bloke.

Get your hubby to exercise. Banana is also a natural aphrodisiac. He should eat at lest one banana a day.
My husbands sexdrive has increased enormously since he became a cycling fanatic. He is also a lot more fancyable.

Okay.
No - I have not had a coil.
Yes - another baby probably would sort me out!!

True, husband is not sexual enough. He's not overweight. He does a fair bit of exercise and has a fairly decent diet.

Where are we going wrong??? I really don't want to get into a situation where I am risking my marriage and my family for sex.

No, so you need to spice it up with hubby, and I will wait with interest to Madamez gets here.

Me too

Huh Fio? He's fairly middle class I suppose (not sure how you define that these days but he has a well paid responsible job).

He's not from Liverpool either.

X-posts I think!!! 'Me too' comment was to Cave woman's waiting for Madamez comment

lol at Fio

i thought a womans sexual peak was about 40? you have ages to go yet... cor, what will you be like byt hen?

Tee hee BoysOnToast.

Nice name by the way. Just what I fancy.