He's just hit me

[Captainspaulding]

Dc not here I'm in daughters bed he's just hit me 4 times in the face with his phone, dragged me off the sofa and put all his weight on me so I couldn't breathe I can't phone police they'll contact social services

Bastard.

Call the police op.

Where is he now ?

Hes downstairs drunk thats what caused the argument

Do you need to be seen at the hospital, can you get out safely.

Why are you worried about them contacting social services? They are there to help. Please call the police - I know it is terrifying but it’s the best thing to do.

If you really are sure that you are going to leave him, then social services will help you rather than punish you. DW about that, get urself safe.

Where are DC?

Of course you can get help and report him. Call from your mobile from the locked bathroom? Yes social services may become involved but they will see you are protecting yourself and your kids so they are not to be feared. Your “DP” clearly IS to be feared and deserves to be arrested so that you are safe. 🌺

He could've killed you. Please call the police.

What would you say to your daughter if her partner did that to her? Don't let her grow up thinking this is acceptable. Phone police.

Yes I could but im safe upstairs he'll more than likely fall asleep. Face is just red not cut or anything..thankyou I'm so upset rn

Call the police.

So @Captainspaulding , how are you going to deal with this in the morn? I'm so sorry this is happening too

You must be in shock and you are already thinking too far ahead.

First thing is to be safe right now. Can you get real life help?

Second is to call the police.

Everything else can wait. Social services are not the Big Bad Wolf, so put that out of your head. They will just want to know the children are safe.

Please phone the police so this POS can be taken away.

Dc are at grans house for the weekend I'm putting some things in a bag right now and I'm going there

Police. Social services may in the future consider you failed to protect the children if he does it again. And again. And possibly again, in front of them.

That's a good idea, do you drive ?

Good for you OP, don't let him away with this. Keep yourself safe, he's not worthy of a loving family.

Please call the police. Social services will be on your side, they won't separate you from your children, everybody will just be focused on keeping you all safe. I'm so sorry, you're in shock and you must be devastated

Good you need to leave and not go back. SS helped me when I left abusive ex, they were a great resource.
His violence towards you will only get worse. Please don't subject your children to it

Keep yourself very safe but definitely report this. Social services will want to keep you with the children and they will want to keep him away from them.

Grab passports if you can.

Call the police.

Please phone the police. They will arrest him. Social services are there to help. He could kill you next time, then what will happen to dc?

Please get out and be careful x