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I want my partner to leave the house after stealing from me

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Sandbaby · 31/12/2023 10:34

I’ve been a victim of long term financial abuse. The details and extent of this have only come to light recently.
I have asked him to move out for the sake of my emotional/mental wellbeing, but he has refused.
I am the sole owner of the house (title deeds) and we are not married or in a civil partnership.
What are my rights?
Thanks

OP posts:

Nn9011 · 01/02/2024 21:04

Sandbaby · 01/02/2024 19:01

Well...what can I say? Thanks all 99% of you for your advice and messages of support.( And appreciation to those who stood up to the ironically named "bullyfree") They really helped me in my darkest hour.
I can now speak more freely as today, my ex-partner was arrested today for fraud and misrepresentation. The conditions of bail mean that he will not be allowed back in the house. This follows an intense and very stressful period of gathering evidence, bank visits, police interviews etc while still holding down a full time job. I have had to cancel my long awaited retirement as I have large debts that were run up in my name, not to mention the theft of all my savings and the money left me by my parents.
I want to reach out with a huge hug to other victims of domestic abuse. It's a very surreal and painful experience. I'm a long,long way off getting justice / closure, but at least he is out of the house.
@Bullyfree I really hope you might learn something about posting comments at someone of whom you know nothing, and who may well be in a very vulnerable place. However I fear the stupidity and insensitivity of your comments suggest that you will learn nothing from this.
Huge thanks all and sorry I couldn't answer each and every one of you individually!
❤️

Thank you for the update. If you haven't already please reach out to the companies with whom the debt is with. Make it clear the circumstances and that you didn't agree to ts&C's, they should be able to help facilitate them being written off.
Also, make sure your bank is doing a proper investigation into the fraud. They may decide to wait until a guilty verdict is given to see what is ordered to be returned by the court however they might consider refunding some of the fraud without having to wait.

Bullyfree · 02/02/2024 01:49