How much does size matter?

[cocktailsausagee]

I need help/answers/wise words/to be told to not overthink and get on with it...

I've been seeing a man for about 3 months. Both divorced, both the main carers for our children. We've taken it really slow in some aspects. Think lots of long phone calls, lots of walks, dinners, just spending time together as and when we could around our children and work etc. I've been to his house, he's been to mine and I am beginning to fall hard for him. He's great.

Now.. the problem. As you may expect we have been intimate a fair few times during this period, but we have not had sex. We've been a bit old fashioned and held off a little as we're both new to dating again. However, he is on the small side, as in the smallest I've seen. In risk of sounding like Samantha from SATC, I'm worried it'll put a dampener on things. I'm worried from my perspective too, my ex husband was quite well endowed and I've had 2 kids and 2 3rd degree tears. What if I'm too big? What if that part just doesn't work for us?

I feel I'm overthinking but the more I try not to think about it, the more I am worrying!

My man is small. We've been together 10 years. If I'm honest I do feel I'm missing out even though I love him dearly. Sex with him has never been as good as my previous partners, not that there were many. I don't think I could ever recommend making the same compromise to another woman now that I realise fulfilling sex is more important to me than I wanted to admit to myself.

😂😂😂😂😂😂howling

😂😂😂😂😂I’ve just googled

Casually looks at thumb

The thing is everyone always says "it doesn't matter because if he's good with his mouth and his hands it'll still be great! It's all about skill!"

But by that logic a man with a cocktail sausage who is skilled with his mouth and hands is compensating for his teeny weenie with his skill, ergo a big'un who is also skilled with his mouth and hands would still be superior.

The worst are those with a tiny helmet.