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Partner's 'thing' about heels

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Leanne185 · 19/12/2023 10:02

My partner seems to have an excessive interest in high heels and is desperate for me to wear them during our intimate moments as a turn on for him. Is this common amongst guys and should I just agree and embrace this or a flat out no-no ?

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NoLidlNoJoke · 25/08/2024 12:24

If you often wear heels in the office it might just be that he finds it sexy and thinks you look good and wants you to leave them on for the bedroom!

SGBK4862 · 25/08/2024 12:49

In my 20s I had a bf that asked me to wear high heeled boots in bed. I didn't mind or think it that odd to be honest. Not that different from sexy lingerie.

Andybones · 27/08/2026 23:26

Put them on for him

UpDownAllAround1 · 27/08/2026 23:27

3 year old thread alert

SaraHoliday · 28/08/2026 02:08

Leanne185 · 19/12/2023 10:02

My partner seems to have an excessive interest in high heels and is desperate for me to wear them during our intimate moments as a turn on for him. Is this common amongst guys and should I just agree and embrace this or a flat out no-no ?

I don't think there is anything wrong here - he would just like to see you wearing high heels?

If you want to wear them, wear them.
If you don't want to wear them, don't.

In my opinion, this is only the same as if you said "I'd really like you to wear that blue shirt".

BatshitCrazyWoman · 28/08/2026 05:57

In my experience it's a really common thing. And not a fetish (unless you wearing heels is a requirement every time you have sex). I wouldn't even call it a kink! MN makes me laugh sometimes 😂 If you don't mind wearing them, then go for it. It's harmless. If you don't want to, then don't.

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