Posting here for traffic.
My ex (childrens father) did something to me last Friday, he was drunk very drunk but I said no and he went ahead anyway. My bum was covered in bruises from him which I photographed.
He slept off the drink and left the next day, we havent spoken about what happened. I'm not sure he remembers but then he could remember but doesnt see any wrong in it, I dont know.
I want to log it with the police so it's on record incase I ever need to use it (if he tried to remove children from my care) but I dont want him arrested, is that something I can do? Or not?
I dont need bashing for not wanting him arrested either, I am trauma bonded to this man huge history of controlling and coercive behaviour. He has done this twice before but that was a very long time ago now.