Do you still fancy your DH after a long relationship

[Palacelife]

And if so, how long have you been together

20 years together and yes, I fancy him even on days that I don't like him very much. He has aged and we definitely have a spark even though I don't feel all that attractive or in the mood these days.

30 years together and still fancy the pants off him. Get butterflies and everything when we're being flirty. Absolutely adore him too.

@PimpMyFridge has put it perfectly. Ups and downs but he's the one I turn too and the sex is still good after nearly 24 years.
Yes different to the start when I jumped his bones at the slightest excuse, it's different now but I love him and I still get occasional butterflies!

15yrs (yesterday was our anniversary) and I absolutely fancy the arse off him! Have we both put on weight, got wrinkles and grey hair? absolutely, but I probably fancy him more now than I did at the beginning which I didn’t think was possible

Yes, 27+ years on 🔥😃

Absolutely fancy the pants off him, yes. Been together for nearly 30 years.

Yep. Been together 8 years. He's still the most attractive man I've ever seen.

met at age 4 in school. Starting dating at age 14, married at age 18 and now 45 and pregnant again ( surprise ) and love the bones of him. He has matured well and I feel I know him inside and out and yes I fancy him like crazy

Yes, absolutely. Together 17 years. Met him a couple of years before that.

Thankfully he does not look like his Dad. The older I get the more I look like mine though.

23 years and he's more gorgeous than ever, really aged well and very much suits his late 40s. I'm a bit ropier but thankfully he still fancies me too - phew! I think if things go well, you see/fancy the person, not just the physical side, but it helps that he's still got his hair and looked after himself.

Depends on whether he’s brought me a cup of tea at 7am and wine at 7pm 😂

Yep, he's lovely inside and out. 15 years on and we're both heavier and greyer and more tired but still feel it.

Nearly 50 years - and yes, I do. And it's mutual 😎

Definitely. Together 31 years and married for 25.

30 years together , 10 years older than me .
He is a silver fox and i think i fancy him more now than when we got together , usual domestic irritations but i could still do him every day if we ever got the chance to be alone ! and he is always a very willing participant .

Yep. 50 + years on and still fancying.😍

We celebrated our 40th wedding anniversary earlier this year. I still think he is the best looking man ever. We share a sofa every evening and fall asleep in each other's arms.

Yes over thirty years together still fancy him, he's got better with age

I do still fancy him - we’ve been together for 18 years. I actually sometimes find it surprising because he can irritate the hell out of me. But he is also lovely, kind and still very attractive. It’s definitely a connection thing - we are deeply connected despite differences and he still makes me belly laugh.

Not anywhere near as long as some of these but we’ve been together 11 years and I still think he’s incredibly hot. And I do get butterflies when we hold hands ☺️ (probably because it’s so rare as usually one of us is pushing a pram and the other is holding a toddler’s hand!)

Yes sometimes the desire is a bit muffled - we’ve had a very tough 3 years and it takes a lot more motivation to jump on him these days. But when we do, it’s just like before. I’ll take that.

This is a lovely thread 🤗

Yes, I do. There have been peaks and troughs along the way but we’ve always been alright and we’re at a peak now as kids are older and we get more time together. 23 years.

7 years here, and yes. Sexual chemistry is fortunately something we don’t have to work on.

Yes, I do. Together 21 years, married for 18 and I still fancy him (most of the time!)

Been together 20years, married 16 and I still fancy the absolute pants off him, I always think he's the most sexy, handsome man in the room (because he usually is 😁)