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I need tech help. Does this look genuine?

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Turningintoaspy · 06/06/2023 21:33

Hi all,

So I'm in a panic and will try to keep it brief. Don't trust partner. He stayed at his dad's house a few week ago as he said he was getting bloods done that day.
Asked him today about his blood results (around 3/4 weeks after he had them taken) and he seemed confused and I had to remind him he had blood tests.
Anyway he sent the below screenshot proving the doctors have contacted him.

What I need to know is, does it look genuine? Could it be Photoshopped? Any clues?
My best friend has just said that the "contact icon" that is purple, should not have colour because the only time you get colour is if the number is saved in your contacts. The doctors number can't be saved as it's a number and not a name.
It's true for both of us that only saved contacts have colour for the contact icon.
Does anyone else get colour if the number isn't saved?

Before anyone says anything, I know if I need to turn this level detective then it's basically over but I need proof.

I need tech help. Does this look genuine?
OP posts:
monsteramunch · 07/06/2023 14:52

Do you have two children, one of whom is his and one of whom isn't?

SmirnoffIceIsNice · 07/06/2023 14:55

Ive never known a GP surgery send a text with their number showing. My GP texts say NHS - No Reply and my mums GP (who text me, different GP) come from the name GPSurgery.

Alargeoneplease89 · 07/06/2023 14:59

SmirnoffIceIsNice · 07/06/2023 14:55

Ive never known a GP surgery send a text with their number showing. My GP texts say NHS - No Reply and my mums GP (who text me, different GP) come from the name GPSurgery.

Mine have their number showing. Look genuine to me.

Modaboutyou · 07/06/2023 15:07

OP at this point it doesn't matter if the texts are legit. If they are, you don't believe him, and that level of scrutiny is not healthy. If they're not, he's lying and going to great lengths to hide it.
You don't need proof to leave him, do better for you and your DC

Turningintoaspy · 07/06/2023 15:14

I have one child who is his. I will definitely be leaving as it is too painful to stay and my self esteem is rock bottom. The main reason for leaving is for the sake of our child, however child will still have contact with my partner, I'm concerned of the impact his influence will have on our child.

I do appreciate he does not care about me or my truth- which is the actual truth. When I discovered his cheating, he deleted the evidence from my phone.

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