Looks like it’s over

[Siltedrain]

18 yrs together. Married 3 kids. Since our son is 10 and stays up at the weekend, we are finding it hard to fit in s8x.
My husband only wants “fun” sex which means me dressing up and parading around infront of him, twirling around. Which to be truthful I don’t want to do every weekend. He’s mean most of the week, and only starts being nice at the weekend when he knows it’s sex time. Last night I just couldn’t bring myself to dress up and twirl around like a monkey for him. This morning he has come downstairs telling me there’s obviously nothing left between us and having a tantrum about it. He doesn’t hug or kiss me and the only time he touches me is when sex is involved.
he won’t have normal sex, or in the bedroom. It has to be in the living room.
Am I wrong for not giving him what he wants? He says I’m demanding because to get in the mood I want some interaction with him.

Id honestly pack his bags with glee he is absolutely disgusting. Completely selfish loser.

He sounds awful, OP. I think you’ll feel much better if you let him go.

Oh Jesus
I can imagine him post divorce and hitting the apps 🤮

this is totally and utterly unreasonable
your not his sex slave op

Yeah, the description of the sex he wants made me feel unwell. I haven't got a strong stomach for anything like that these days....
Imagine dating him and it gets as far as sex and it turns out he doesn't seem to be able to have "normal" sex and he starts on about wanting a show putting on for him in the living room.
FFS what the fuck is wrong with people?

This is the first day of the rest of your life. Trite but true. He has done you a favour. Call his bluff. He most likely think you'll beg him to reconsider. Don't. What you've described is no life, for you or your children.

No wonder you don’t want to have sex with the entitled self-centred prick of a man🤮

I think you should be the one wanting to break free from the hideousness pressure he tries to enforce on you.

Good luck💐