Help. I need to begin and invest time and effort into bringing DH and I back together. We've been together for decades. Kids growing up and we can leave them a bit more together in the house.
DH and I have ignored our marriage and to put it bluntly everyone else's grass is greener, ours is brown. I've been distracted by others (don't nothing) and it highlighted the huge gaps in our marriage and the need for us to reconnect.
I would like to have a weekly event that we go to. Maybe meet others, enjoy each other and become a happier more invested couple.
This is make or break time. If this doesn't work I cannot stay in the marriage as I'm miserable and very lonely. DH is willing to try.
No dancing, DH would never do it. No idea where else to start.
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Ideas of a weekly things to do/join with DH to invest time into our marriage.
motherofkevinnotperry · 09/03/2023 19:52
BestZebbie · 09/03/2023 20:01
Now good weather is coming, go for a walk together at the weekend and end up in a pub for sunday lunch. You can chat as you walk (easier side-by-side than staring over a table) and at lunch, get a bulky paper and read interesting bits out to each other and chat about them.
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