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I dreamt about another man

41 replies

Forrestero · 10/02/2023 21:33

There was a man at work who kept giving me the eye last year. I just ignored it as he was married. He still looks at me that way and I just remain brief and polite. Last night I had a dream that he saw me in a summer dress and sandals and ran after me. He said he needed to speak to me. He pulled me in and we started kissing and I did not stop. I did think about my boyfriend during the kiss how it's not fair as he been cheated on before.

Then man from work saw his wife and he quickly stopped, she didn't see us kissing and he acted normal around her. I thought how awful he acted innocent t around his wife. I feel guilty as I should not be dreaming about another man when I have a boyfriend. I am very happy with my boyfriend so I don't know why I had this dream.

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Sunsetintheeast · 10/02/2023 21:34

It’s a dream. Forget it

Merlott · 10/02/2023 21:37

Dreams usually aren't literal. Also you can't control them so does it even matter?

I've dreamt that Obama was my dad, he made me dinner and gave me a hug.

I've dreamt I was a lesbian and my girlfriend was a redheaded Irish woman.

I've dreamt my DH was gay and I watched him with his lover.

I bet everyone has had dreams just as random 😅

Enjoy the sexy dream and don't read into it 🤷‍♀️

Echobelly · 10/02/2023 21:38

I once had a dream involving snogging Boris Johnson 😩doesn't mean I wanted it to happen|!

Maraudingmarauders · 10/02/2023 21:38

Christ if I got upset every time I dream cheated I'd never smile again. I've had dreams about the weirdest of people, including some Id never find attractive in a million years.
I love my husband more than life itself and would never ever be unfaithful in real life.
A dream is a dream. I've also murdered people, but I don't take it to heart.

BenCoopersSupportWren · 10/02/2023 21:38

It’s a dream, you have no control over it. My DH and I have both dream-cheated on each other in my dreams; we’ve been happily and faithfully married over 20 years.

TheVanguardSix · 10/02/2023 21:41

Oh god, I’ve dreamt of sex with coworkers I wouldn’t look twice at in reality. It’s a dream, NOT a subliminal message. Put it away inside the Forget It box.

Tuilpmouse · 10/02/2023 21:42

Bloody hell... If every dream I had became reality, I'd be on the national news as a wanted psychopath!

Wonderingwhyy · 10/02/2023 21:43

Merlott · 10/02/2023 21:37

Dreams usually aren't literal. Also you can't control them so does it even matter?

I've dreamt that Obama was my dad, he made me dinner and gave me a hug.

I've dreamt I was a lesbian and my girlfriend was a redheaded Irish woman.

I've dreamt my DH was gay and I watched him with his lover.

I bet everyone has had dreams just as random 😅

Enjoy the sexy dream and don't read into it 🤷‍♀️

I wish I had your dreams - they sound great!

Tuilpmouse · 10/02/2023 21:44

And it was only a kiss as well, and even in the dream you were worried about your bf.

Please never have Stilton cheese before you go to bed... I think you'd need some serious therapy if you did!

Dery · 10/02/2023 21:45

“Oh god, I’ve dreamt of sex with coworkers I wouldn’t look twice at in reality. It’s a dream, NOT a subliminal message. Put it away inside the Forget It box.”

This with bells on!

Hoolihan · 10/02/2023 21:46

I once dreamt I was having sex with my mum. Don't worry about it OP.

category12 · 10/02/2023 21:48

I dreamt I had sex with David Cameron and I wouldn't touch him with someone else's so...

It was a dream, you wally.

Sometimes they can be very vivid or disturbing, but they're nothing to feel guilty about. You might think "wtf brain" but never mind.

Sunsetintheeast · 10/02/2023 22:05

Hoolihan · 10/02/2023 21:46

I once dreamt I was having sex with my mum. Don't worry about it OP.

I think that one could leave a bit of a scar 😂

ChatInMyFlat · 10/02/2023 22:07

I dream my cat takes over the world by shooting everyone.

It's just a dream.

NerrSnerr · 10/02/2023 22:10

I had a sex dream the other week about my son's female year 1 teacher! That one was a bit of a surprise.

I do get cross when my husband cheats on me in my dreams though. That's rude of him and I let him know!

AccidentallyRunToWindsor · 10/02/2023 22:12

Haha I've shagged many a man in my dreams, Brad Pitt being a fave. Means nothing

declutteringmymind · 10/02/2023 22:15

I don't have dreams like this. I want the Brad Pitt or Obama one

OP vivid dreams often stay with me all day. Sometimes I wake up really angry at DH for something he has done wrong in my dreams.

illiterato · 10/02/2023 22:16

Tuilpmouse · 10/02/2023 21:42

Bloody hell... If every dream I had became reality, I'd be on the national news as a wanted psychopath!

This. I have a recurring dream that I’ve murdered someone ( I never know who) and put them behind the hot water tank in my childhood home with my swim bag over them as a disguise. The police are coming up the drive. Then I wake up.

gamerchick · 10/02/2023 22:18

Dream or daydream?

There's nothing wrong with you but if you're not feeling you're getting the attention from your bloke, have a chat with him.

Husband dreamed I cheated on him. He was cross when he woke up, it was really funny.

ShiverOfSharks · 10/02/2023 22:22

I dream-fuck people all the time. Sometimes real people, sometimes imaginary, sometimes men, sometimes women. My last celebrity sex dream was about James Marsters, and unlike most people, I so would not.

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declutteringmymind · 10/02/2023 22:15

I don't have dreams like this. I want the Brad Pitt or Obama one

OP vivid dreams often stay with me all day. Sometimes I wake up really angry at DH for something he has done wrong in my dreams.

I had a really vivid dream once that my dad tried to intervene to calm down 2 guys having a fight, but he got stabbed in the kerfuffle. I held him as he died and it lasted ages, but the ambulance didn't come in time. I woke up sobbing my heart out and the whole day was an emotional wreck. I tried to tell a couple of people as I was just so upset, but people thought I was being mad.

LadyJ2023 · 10/02/2023 22:58

Jeeez you lot do some weird dreaming lol can't say I ever had dreams like it lol 🤣

Luredbyapomegranate · 10/02/2023 23:02

Dreams are fine. You can’t control them and it doesn’t matter.

Elsanore · 10/02/2023 23:14

Hoolihan · 10/02/2023 21:46

I once dreamt I was having sex with my mum. Don't worry about it OP.

😂