afternoon all
crazy morning so haven't had time to come on and post.
tbh, i think i will update FB tonight with more intimate details of what was said etc.
Short precis is that H arrived early and dd was overjoyed to see him. parents evening went well and dd got a good report altho how could she not
I did bring up the topic of divorce and essentially H said he had no feelings one way or another
Both agreed that the saddest part was that he didn't feel strongly either way. He just wants the current situation to persist. I kinda feel the same, we are getting on pretty well on the whole.
We sat down with a year planner and started working out regular access dates/times etc (i reserved our lunch date don't worry!).
We continued to chat this morning and he says he's 60/40 for not getting divorced but he understands where I'm coming from.
that sort of indifference just makes me want to press ahead and get it sorted tbh.
clearly he is still pretty troubled and altho the whole scenario makes me very sad i respect him for his honesty. at least he's no longer saying what he thinks i want to hear.
anyways, there's more detail that i don't want to put on MN so will try to get FB updated tonight.
Tanee very very very happy birthday!