thank you kind posters for mentioning me. I appreciate the validation and sense of community.
now:
I mean… there are ZERO stories out there where a man treats a woman like this and they end up happily ever after. Zero. None. Big old goose egg. At best she becomes the plan B who got wifed up… because he didn’t have anything better come along despite his ardent wish. In these cases he resents her bitterly. It’s not him being an unable to get anything better, it’s that she stopped him from it! As if he doesn’t have his own agency!!!
I get it. It’s easy for me to say but I’m not in it. I can promise you I’ve been in it before and I WISH I had the big baddy ovaries to take up for myself. Because it’s was all just a criminal waste of my precious time. I am too good for that crap.
You are too.
It gets easier to take up for yourself and you open up more time for quality men. And yea, I’d rather be alone then with a BS user man sucking my self worth like marrow from a bone. I just can’t with this crap from these men anymore.
Men who feel they are the prize are deluded as hell. Women ALWAYS have more options. At EVERY age. ALWAYS. Men don’t age well it is a lie. Men for the most aren’t shit. As true equality is realized they are now not even big earners compared to women. Their power is diminishing and so they lean heavy on manipulations.
I am telling you. Playing “nice” lowers your value. Like some rich kid who has daddy’s money to burn and doesn’t understand that money is a paper representation of hard work, so is the the man who is given access, thought, courtesy, and care without any effort. They don’t value what they haven’t earned no matter how awesome the benefit is.
I am telling you. You can be the one that got away. Men get straight up haunted forever by a high value woman. You’ll be on to the next and he will always have you somewhere in his mind rattling around with his few brain cells. (Said it and I meant it!)
Men like this expect women to make nice and to remain open to their epic amount of bullshittery. But for what? What does that get YOU?
Betting that if asked, you tell friends that you’re not trying to have your time wasted and be fucked about… that some things aren’t meant to be but no hard feelings, you just want something more… they’d get it.
People are separated from the block and delete here i get that. But NOTHING says done and over then cutting off all access to you and your splendor. You have rich and beautiful delights and he needs to know that he isn’t good enough. He isn’t tall enough to ride your ride. No access! Get his back to BACK of the long line of those who will value you!
Men value what they work for. They value what they put effort into. This dude is low effort and you are too high value. I am imploring you to be the one who wishes up and threw the trash out.
I am pulling for all the women here.