I have tried but all I see is manipulative selfish behaviour.
To be fair she doesn't like me either. The basis for this may have been I have always been close to my brother, her husband. She seems to be a jealous, competitive person and doesn't like my closeness to him.
Myself and my siblings all see how she dominates everything, it is her way or no way. He is too good for his own good and really needs to stand up to her but doesn't. This of course is his choice and his relationship. We will never say anything but oh my god it is hard to watch.
How do others cope in similar circumstances.