@Draconis
True, you hear of stories all the time of men who all different races, cultures, including white British, where the woman is expected to hold down a full time job, be nanny, cook, cleaner etc. The man not lift a finger outside his job.
I know of a Pakistan born man, who married a white British woman, and they've been married decades, have multiple children, and he's very hands on with his fair share of childcare, cooking, cleaning etc, and well as working his job.
It's a universal problem...a man not doing his fair share, or a man not committing to marriage after several years of cohabitation together and often kids in tow.
OP the emotions will fade in time, you'll see the logic and facts, in time, and wonder why you ever were so hung up on this piece of trash.