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Women liking my husband pics

106 replies

ok1992 · 01/12/2022 21:10

I don't know if it is just me that would be annoyed with this and that I'm some crazy person to feel like this.

So my husband has his instagram and he has no pics of me or us together on there, so I think it appears that he is single.

So I've noticed the same women always like his pictures/videos

These women are from his work, he works in a warehouse not that it's anything to do with it but they are all foreign women .

Would this annoy you too?

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TellMeWhere · 01/12/2022 22:38

Since they're foreign, you better take immediate action. Why don't you message them all and tell them to go back where they came from? Those photo-liking harlots never learn.

Could you take a Daily Mail sad face photo of the two of you with your wedding certificate outside their respective embassy/ies and then tag him in it?

Can only assume you don't trust your husband. It's quite likely he's doing the dirty behind a stack of palettes for at least half of every shift.

RagzRebooted · 01/12/2022 22:41

potchy · 01/12/2022 22:25

Do people actively check who likes their Dh's photos?!

I don't even look at DH's social media. He mostly shit-posts in wierd groups and has some very odd friends on there (many of whom are women). I don't really u

TabithaTittlemouse · 01/12/2022 22:43

I don’t look to see who (if anyone) likes anything that Dh posts. Tbh I don’t even really know if he uses his sm much.
Maybe I should check for foreigners!

5128gap · 01/12/2022 22:45

Noonesperfect · 01/12/2022 22:30

If they were younger and prettier. I wouldn't like it 😆

Multiple pretty young women don't typically form a group crush on Pete from pickin and packin. So
I'd assume their intentions were honourable.

Nancienoo · 01/12/2022 22:47

Yes it would annoy me

astronewt · 01/12/2022 22:59

I barely have DH on my social media and I think he's not at all on my IG. I'm not on his either because it's all moody pictures of food and landscapes and interesting architecture. What fucking sluts we are.

qpmz · 01/12/2022 23:11

Circumferences · 01/12/2022 21:56

Why would a warehouse worker have an Instagram page?
Is he posing flexing his muscles lifting big boxes in short sleeves?
Does he make you feel insecure generally?

I've heard it all now! What jobs qualify having an Instagram account?

Overgrowngrasslady · 01/12/2022 23:14

Well no of course not how weird would that be .

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ok1992 · 01/12/2022 23:15

ok1992 · 01/12/2022 21:10

I don't know if it is just me that would be annoyed with this and that I'm some crazy person to feel like this.

So my husband has his instagram and he has no pics of me or us together on there, so I think it appears that he is single.

So I've noticed the same women always like his pictures/videos

These women are from his work, he works in a warehouse not that it's anything to do with it but they are all foreign women .

Would this annoy you too?

Ok I think I need to clarify, I'm neither being racist of foreign people.

I worked for a little while where he works and the majority of workers are foreign there, and I did witness a lot of flirty behaviour.

So with that being said as I have said that he doesn't have anything on his instagram of being in a relationship so if those "colleagues " are liking his pics for other reasons.

It's literally women liking his pic not any of the guys from work,

Should I be feeling like this!

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123woop · 01/12/2022 23:16

"Foreign women"???

mindutopia · 01/12/2022 23:21

I mean I honestly don’t even know who likes dh’s Instagram photos. He pretty much only uses it for work so it’s a public account, but I’ve truly never thought to look. I really don’t care and no it wouldn’t bother me if Sheila from Leeds liked the photo of him cooking sausages on Bonfire night.

It would bother me though if he presented himself as single though. I mean again, his Instagram is for work (he’s self employed), but definitely it’s obvious he has children (the backs of them feature from time to time) and a wife (he talks about family holidays or nice meals he makes for me). Unless it’s a purely professional account, it’s weird to not at least occasionally mention a partner if you have one.

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ok1992 · 01/12/2022 23:23

mindutopia · 01/12/2022 23:21

I mean I honestly don’t even know who likes dh’s Instagram photos. He pretty much only uses it for work so it’s a public account, but I’ve truly never thought to look. I really don’t care and no it wouldn’t bother me if Sheila from Leeds liked the photo of him cooking sausages on Bonfire night.

It would bother me though if he presented himself as single though. I mean again, his Instagram is for work (he’s self employed), but definitely it’s obvious he has children (the backs of them feature from time to time) and a wife (he talks about family holidays or nice meals he makes for me). Unless it’s a purely professional account, it’s weird to not at least occasionally mention a partner if you have one.

That's what I'm talking about ,
The pictures that he post are him working out in the gym, it is only recent post where he posting pics of him self.

Maybe they don't know he is in a relationship, and are just ogling him.

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PlainOldMe80 · 01/12/2022 23:29

I worked for a little while where he works and the majority of workers are foreign there, and I did witness a lot of flirty behaviour.

Hate to break it to you, but being foreign doesn't automatically make you flirty 😂😂😂

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ok1992 · 01/12/2022 23:30

PlainOldMe80 · 01/12/2022 23:29

I worked for a little while where he works and the majority of workers are foreign there, and I did witness a lot of flirty behaviour.

Hate to break it to you, but being foreign doesn't automatically make you flirty 😂😂😂

It's one of them situations where you would have to work there to know. Maybe I'm not wording things right.

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Meggymoo777 · 01/12/2022 23:30

If it has nothing to do with it... then why even mention they are 'foreign'?

LeandraDear · 01/12/2022 23:32

Circumferences · 01/12/2022 21:56

Why would a warehouse worker have an Instagram page?
Is he posing flexing his muscles lifting big boxes in short sleeves?
Does he make you feel insecure generally?

It might be the night he is wearing his special sexy boxers to work - remember the thread about those see through ones at the warehouse 😂

LeandraDear · 01/12/2022 23:34

ok1992 · 01/12/2022 23:30

It's one of them situations where you would have to work there to know. Maybe I'm not wording things right.

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I know exactly what you mean and many others will too.

donquixotedelamancha · 01/12/2022 23:35

Welcome to MN, OP. What an interesting first post. Gosh it's certainly generating lots of attention for you.

PlainOldMe80 · 01/12/2022 23:36

As I said in a previous post I work in a warehouse, I am foreign and I use Instagram.

And yes I do admit I work with a lot of people of different cultures, but you keep pointing out that these women are foreign, like British (I'm assuming you are British) women can't be flirty?

Would it bother you less if someone British liked your husbands pictures?

Luellie · 01/12/2022 23:38

kingtamponthefurred · 01/12/2022 22:20

I don't know much about Instagram but I thought the whole purpose was to garner attention from complete strangers?

Some people use it for that - celebrities, influencers, or people trying to be influencers. Most everyday folk just use it to connect with friends. My account is set to private mode which means only my friends see anything I post. Most people I know do the same. I certainly don't want attention from strangers, quite the opposite!

Being a warehouse worker certainly doesn't disqualify you from using it at any rate 🤣

determinedtomakethiswork · 01/12/2022 23:39

I always think that men like this must think "what a time to be alive" - years back they wouldn't have had anyone flattering them at all.

Opine · 01/12/2022 23:40

astronewt · 01/12/2022 22:04

Those furrin women. They know how to have sex with a man right there in public on his Instagram likes. They're known for it.

Almost woke everyone up with my snorty laughing. Best comment EVER 🤣🤣

5128gap · 01/12/2022 23:41

ok1992 · 01/12/2022 23:15

Ok I think I need to clarify, I'm neither being racist of foreign people.

I worked for a little while where he works and the majority of workers are foreign there, and I did witness a lot of flirty behaviour.

So with that being said as I have said that he doesn't have anything on his instagram of being in a relationship so if those "colleagues " are liking his pics for other reasons.

It's literally women liking his pic not any of the guys from work,

Should I be feeling like this!

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So, what you really mean is that you worked there and the culture was flirty, with people behaving quite unprofessionally, and lots of banter between the men and women. Which means there is more potential for something untoward to develop than in workplace where everyone sits quietly at their desk, speaking only about work matters? If so, I get you.
Some work places are like this, and there is a higher risk of someone prone to cheating getting the opportunity. Obviously it's nothing to do with people being foreign, and everything to do with character. You think your DH is a player and his job gives him the chance to play.

Pinkbonbon · 01/12/2022 23:44

Make a comment on his pics that's makes it clear you are his wife (and also that you are still lovey-dovey incase he is trying to sell the lie that you two are not getting along).

What happens if you do that?
If he freaks out or asks you to take it down THEN you know you have a problem.