Do you expect the ahem "big O" every time?

[HaventSleptForAYear]

Just finished ROFL about the DPs initiating sex thread.

Will go and add my own in a minute but was wondering whether all these oh so romantic beginnings (flick ya prawn anyone? Willy windmill!?) then turn into good sex or not??

Sometimes I say get on with it when he wants aquickie and I can't be bothered .

But most of the time yes in fact a few days ago he erm arived a little quickly so I made him do it again

Yes

Well, the least I'd expect is them not to give up and roll over if they're finished and I haven't!

yes. DH's male pride would not cope with the knowledge that he hadn't given his missus the time of her life. well, that's what i tell him

really? wow, you're all so lucky....I probably only have an orgasm 1 times out of 10...my hubby appears to think that it's my problem if I don't cum....

uhhhhh YES
otherwise What is the Point?!

yes, in fact I demand it and both types. For starter I have a clitoral orgasm and then for main course a vaginal orgasm or two. Dh wouldn't let me not as he knows how important it is but saying that I am lucky as it is not exactly difficult for me to achieve. .

Yes! What would be the point otherwise? And if it looks like my partner won't be giving me one I get on with it myself

of course! and if they can't manage it i am more than happy to roll over, open the draw and finish the job myself.

If he gets one then so do I..
Why should it be any other way?

Only ever mange to orgasm with vibrator, but have incorporated that into sex evry time now, so do always.

spent years havibg sex and never having an orgasm though, still really enjoyed it and wanted it. I guess I wasn't aware what i was misiing!

OH. Am with Lucylala on this one (and withering heights on stilll enjoying anyway).
Now wondering why everyone is so reluctant to have sex if you get a good result every time ?

I'm not as my DP would gladly testify

I guess sometimes it's the starting off that people can't be bothered with..after all if you're offered chocolate cake on a plate most peole scoff it, but if you were given all the ingredients and told you could make it then eat it....guess there would be a lot of full cupbaords for a while....

I'm a bit like WitheringHeights although I can sometimes have one from oral sex but I can't seem to have one every time - my body is just wierd. I have to wait about 5 days and then I have one easily with the vibrator and after a while with oral sex.

But I still enjoy it when I don't as I enjoy my dh's pleasure and feeling close etc etc. I didn't have one til I was 35 so had a lot of sex without the big O!!

I don't have the big O everytime , but I do enjoy the sex even without iT, even at 34 week prg!

Yes DH isn't happy unless I am happy..... Am satisfied either way.

I dont "expect" it - quite often happy without - but DP would always rather I did.

yes
if i have to bother doing it, i want a freaking orgasm out of it. otherwise whats the point

quickies in the morning i dont, but dp will always make sure i have at least 1 every time

It's definately an added bonus if you get one

exactly what PPH says - why bother otherwise?

Bit by "why bother?". I don't think not bothering is the solution. But lucky you if it's never a problem for you - some of us are not so lucky (and I'm the problem, not DH, most of the time).

Definitely, definitely, definitely, there are times I really cant be bothered and just go with the flow so DP can get his end away but then I get into it and the quickie goes out the window.