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Do you expect the ahem "big O" every time?

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HaventSleptForAYear · 31/01/2008 13:46

Just finished ROFL about the DPs initiating sex thread.

Will go and add my own in a minute but was wondering whether all these oh so romantic beginnings (flick ya prawn anyone? Willy windmill!?) then turn into good sex or not??

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lazarou · 02/02/2008 15:19

Always, and sometimes followed by a few more 'little o's'

duke748 · 02/02/2008 17:27

Hey all. Just wanted to put another side to the story across in case there are some people reading these posts about all these happy ladies.

At least 1 in 8 women - probably more - do not achieve orgasm during penetration. Fact.

So if it ain't happening for you - don't worry too much - you arn't abnormal.

But of course there is other stuff you can do to get you there.

My current partner has this amazing ability (and enthusiasm ) for oral which gives me the absolute best orgasms I have ever had, and so many that I literally have to beg him to stop.

So, to answer your question, yes I do get the 'big o' most times, but not necessarily through straight sex. From talking to my girlfriends, I would think that that is pretty common.

CaliAndiemcdowellFrau · 02/02/2008 17:32

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missingtheaction · 02/02/2008 18:50

juicychops - AT LEAST ONE? like you sometimes can manage more than one in one session? respect!

overall i expect an equal balance of bliss - sometimes only one of us get there, sometimes both, sometimes neither but we still have a very very good time thanks

LadyVictorianSqualor · 02/02/2008 19:08

I dont normally get an orgasm without clitoral stimulation, but I just make sure that I get that stimulated!

MrsJohnCusack · 02/02/2008 19:46

"I don't think not bothering is the solution".

sorry - didn't think there was a problem, just a question!

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HaventSleptForAYear · 03/02/2008 13:16

Sorry MrsJohn, didn't mean to be over-sensitive, you're right, it was a question.

Just a bit of the old from me because I find it v. difficult but am not going to give it up because I do enjoy it anyway.

You lucky lucky ladies - if I were you I would be at it every night.

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loopylou6 · 03/02/2008 16:24

hell yeah

MrsJohnCusack · 03/02/2008 22:10

oh that's OK!
I know I'm a demanding old baggage....

3catstoo · 04/02/2008 13:08

Only with oral or if I do it myself. DH is quite happy to roll over and leave me wondering. He doesn't know that I dash to the bathroom once he's asleep (about 60 seconds after he's cum!) to finish what he hasn't.

Disenchanted · 04/02/2008 13:09

Yes and more than once, lol

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