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Would you want to know

34 replies

Safireblue · 04/11/2022 08:41

Would you want to know if your husband has been sending money and dick pics to another woman ?

OP posts:
Shoxfordian · 04/11/2022 08:48

Of course I would want to know so I could divorce him

Facecream · 04/11/2022 08:48

Yes

Divebar2021 · 04/11/2022 08:48

To you?

GreenManalishi · 04/11/2022 08:53

If your news is going to blow someone's world apart back it up with evidence, otherwise it's gossip.

thisbathiscoldnow · 04/11/2022 08:57

Yes of course I'd want to know.
I'd need hard evidence though, so I could print it out and put it in the bin bags with the rest of his stuff.

Cheminaufaules · 04/11/2022 09:44

Sending money for what?

MistyFrequencies · 04/11/2022 09:47

Yes. Id want evidence too.

Safireblue · 04/11/2022 09:52

Just money for spending on whatever, evidence is bank statements and emails with dick pics and explicit texts ?

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Loachworks · 04/11/2022 11:52

Yes but I'd want proof.

Pesimistic · 04/11/2022 12:41

Yes absoultly

XAQ · 04/11/2022 12:48

Yep, I'd want to know!

MrsKeats · 04/11/2022 13:08

This is a rhetorical question surely?

whoknew123 · 04/11/2022 13:10

Safireblue · 04/11/2022 08:41

Would you want to know if your husband has been sending money and dick pics to another woman ?

Err 100% yes! I'm guessing you're trying to decide whether to tell a friend of their husband's activity? Sadly, if so, then you must.

SuzannaBonanza · 04/11/2022 13:23

of course but has to be evidence otherwise i'd think it's fabricated malicious lies by a jealous person.

andmostofallyouletyourselfdown · 04/11/2022 16:09

Yes, of course.

AuntieStella · 04/11/2022 16:16

Yes

PS5Gamer · 04/11/2022 17:20

Yes.

Crazypaving22 · 04/11/2022 17:22

Yes

Outtasteamandluck · 04/11/2022 17:26

Oh yes.

AltitudeCheck · 04/11/2022 17:54

Depends, someone he plans on having a relationship with it meeting in real life yes, I'd prefer to know. A sex worker or an only fans account or something similar then no.

OutDamnedSpot · 04/11/2022 17:56

Yes.

Whoeveriam · 04/11/2022 18:06

Yes !

MiniTheMinx · 04/11/2022 18:10

I'd want to know about the money.

AlwaysBloodyWorrying · 04/11/2022 18:14

Yes but I'd want hard evidence and I would NOT want it to be anonymous. It would drive me mad and I'd be suspicious of everyone.

Sn0tnose · 04/11/2022 18:31

Definitely yes, but I’d want some evidence.

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