My boyfriend stays at mine 4 days a week
he is currently living with his mum whilst he sorts out a new place
he had to leave last place as landlord sold
i have 7 year old dd, he will buy meals for us ( not every day )cost of living Is high and I feel shifty for feeling like this but I want to tell him that although am very happy if he stays over he will have to contribute toward hot water (metered) and electric ( metered) as obviously his being here showering using appliances ect is costing more not to mention buying more in food such as milk bread tea bags coffee toothpaste and shower gel
he does buy some meals to cook but not every day he stays and of course he shouldn’t have to , however am finding am using extra cupboard ingredients to cook for 3 rather than 2
AIBU to ask for contribution, I don’t want him to move in as an not ready for that yet been together for a year