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Just sent a risky text…want to wait with me!

135 replies

Narwhalelife · 07/10/2022 22:31

I have been seeing a guy for just over 3 months, we see each other weekly (due to the distance we live and work etc) and text every day all manner of things from photos of where we are (both been on holiday separately since we met), selfies (normal I’m in the car or out with the dogs etc) to sexy talk, work, whatever we think of really.

Sometimes both of us leave large gaps between replying but usually due to work/commitments etc only hours not days etc. we have messaged everyday since we met.

We share reels, memes etc and today i see a reel - something like ‘the universe gives you the person you need’ - he replied ‘tell me more’ so I took this as an invite to kinda state my feelings (not love!!) but how I really liked him, great sex felt we have a good connection and I’m excited for the future!

so far, message not seen and no reply - we are 2 hours out - first time Iv sent a text bricking it in years 😂

wish me luck ladies!

OP posts:
Cosycover · 08/10/2022 09:01

Ah this is lovely.

You will be walking on air this morning eh?

Nothing beats that exciting feeling.

MrsLargeEmbodied · 08/10/2022 09:05

that is such a nice read

Clarinet1 · 08/10/2022 09:10

This thread reminds me of that episode of Frasier where dozens of neighbours are waiting outside the
apartment to see whether Martin’s date (whom Frasier embarrassed by blabbing about her on the radio) will turn up.

Kittensquirrel · 08/10/2022 09:53

Lovely post 💙

NovemberRain2 · 08/10/2022 10:05

This is lovely ❤️ Hope things go really well for you

BadNomad · 08/10/2022 10:05

Yey congrats!

It's nice to see a thread not full of "Dump him. If he was in to you, he would have replied immediately" for once.

ShimmyYaYaYay · 08/10/2022 10:11

This is so cute OP! Grinning like a teen at a slumber party 🎉 good luck

ShadowPuppets · 08/10/2022 10:40

Sparklythings1 · 08/10/2022 01:39

Aww so pleased for you OP, ive got butterflies for you 😂 When you do get married, can you please show him this thread?

I basically did that, I’m a prolific diarist and when DH and I got married I did a wedding speech that was extracts from my diaries from the first few months of us dating 😁 probably looked like a knob but friends said it was sweet 🙈

I love this thread OP and I’m so happy for you!

PippinStar · 08/10/2022 10:40

I actually squealed when I read his reply. I think I was a bit too invested 🤣 So happy for you though, OP!

JoanCandy · 08/10/2022 10:51

Clarinet1 · 08/10/2022 09:10

This thread reminds me of that episode of Frasier where dozens of neighbours are waiting outside the
apartment to see whether Martin’s date (whom Frasier embarrassed by blabbing about her on the radio) will turn up.

Ha ! I remember that too 😂
Awh, so happy for you both, OP !

CG1991 · 08/10/2022 10:56

Wahoooooo xx

Solidarityisbetterthanchsrity · 08/10/2022 11:05

Awww love is in the air

LadyLolaRuben · 08/10/2022 11:42

Lovely post. Pleased for you OP!

Softplayhooray · 09/10/2022 18:20

Make sure you update this post when you move in together 🙂😉

MsBombastic555 · 09/10/2022 18:59

Narwhalelife · 07/10/2022 23:34

‘I couldn’t have said it better myself, maybe you can read my mind?’

‘we need to live properly and we do it so well together’

happy dancing 😂

**must resist the urge not to ask him to marry me 😂😂😂😂

You remind me so much of me lol 😂 I'm exactly the same way.

MsBombastic555 · 09/10/2022 19:03

Devon01 · 08/10/2022 00:35

Always one that has to lower the tone.

😂 quite. The special plans bit made me lol.

Icantfindmykeys · 09/10/2022 19:14

Love this post ❤️❤️

dhfoody47 · 09/10/2022 19:18

Lovely thread, all the best 😍

wellstopdoingitthen · 09/10/2022 19:29

What a lovely positive thread. So happy for you. 😍

babymamalove · 09/10/2022 19:35

Clarinet1 · 08/10/2022 09:10

This thread reminds me of that episode of Frasier where dozens of neighbours are waiting outside the
apartment to see whether Martin’s date (whom Frasier embarrassed by blabbing about her on the radio) will turn up.

Such a good show

Looby57 · 09/10/2022 19:36

It’s always scary when you first tell someone you have ‘the feels!’ I did this with my hubster 20 years ago! We moved in together 8 weeks after we met lol and got married in 2007! He’s my rock x

Hellospring22 · 09/10/2022 19:44

Aw this is so lovely. Huge grin on my face when I read his reply.

JosieJasper · 09/10/2022 20:28

I know I’m not just late to the party but clearly turned up on the wrong day but this was just so lovely to read. Very happy for you! 😘

kateandme · 09/10/2022 21:16

babymamalove · 09/10/2022 19:35

Such a good show

I miss the cozy tv programs.they seem to have all gone.

PurpleIsTheNewPink · 09/10/2022 21:24

Narwhalelife · 07/10/2022 23:34

‘I couldn’t have said it better myself, maybe you can read my mind?’

‘we need to live properly and we do it so well together’

happy dancing 😂

**must resist the urge not to ask him to marry me 😂😂😂😂

Had a shitty day but this made me smile. Thanks for sharing and I'm glad that you are happy with each other.

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