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Just sent a risky text…want to wait with me!

135 replies

Narwhalelife · 07/10/2022 22:31

I have been seeing a guy for just over 3 months, we see each other weekly (due to the distance we live and work etc) and text every day all manner of things from photos of where we are (both been on holiday separately since we met), selfies (normal I’m in the car or out with the dogs etc) to sexy talk, work, whatever we think of really.

Sometimes both of us leave large gaps between replying but usually due to work/commitments etc only hours not days etc. we have messaged everyday since we met.

We share reels, memes etc and today i see a reel - something like ‘the universe gives you the person you need’ - he replied ‘tell me more’ so I took this as an invite to kinda state my feelings (not love!!) but how I really liked him, great sex felt we have a good connection and I’m excited for the future!

so far, message not seen and no reply - we are 2 hours out - first time Iv sent a text bricking it in years 😂

wish me luck ladies!

OP posts:
JennyJenny8675309 · 08/10/2022 01:44

It’s lovely when he turns out to be a genuine nice guy. So often women realise they’re seeing a real loser. Lucky you! ❤️

H112 · 08/10/2022 01:54

Delighted for you. Met my guy a year ago and still feel like this.

This is the relationship you deserve !

NotJustAnybody · 08/10/2022 02:24

Bit late to the party but that's so lovely, something positive!

rivermanblows · 08/10/2022 02:50

Ah this is so nice to read!

VeganSoulFood · 08/10/2022 02:56

I’m trying to clamp down on feelings for someone I can’t have, so delighted to see this. Best wishes, OP.

Frangipani17 · 08/10/2022 03:00

F try

ChelseaRobertsofMalibu · 08/10/2022 04:03

Oh to be a teen again Halo

Best of luck OP!

Leahinlondon · 08/10/2022 05:01

So happy for you OP! ❤

Dontsparethehorses · 08/10/2022 05:07

Love love love this thread! Well done for being brave op!

BigPants2022 · 08/10/2022 06:41

I’m a sucker for a good romance story… movies… books… mumsnet threads ❤️ Loved reading this as my first thread this morning. Thanks for taking us with you 🥰

jojojojo77 · 08/10/2022 06:42

Well, there are many smooth talkers/testers out there. I hope it translates into some actionable moves..

MrsPerfect12 · 08/10/2022 07:01

Brilliant! So happy for you.

hugefanofcheese · 08/10/2022 07:04

Aww what a delight!

Lannielou · 08/10/2022 07:14

Super happy for you.xx

Isahlo · 08/10/2022 07:33

Aw congratulations 😍

birder · 08/10/2022 07:34

What a great reply, he has a very thoughtful way with words.

1982mommaof4 · 08/10/2022 07:39

Narwhalelife · 07/10/2022 23:34

‘I couldn’t have said it better myself, maybe you can read my mind?’

‘we need to live properly and we do it so well together’

happy dancing 😂

**must resist the urge not to ask him to marry me 😂😂😂😂

😂😂😂❤️❤️

Amdone123 · 08/10/2022 07:42

I agree he has a thoughtful way with words !
I've just woke up to this thread. I'm sat in bed, with a coffee, dog is snoring and lurvvvve is in thee air.
Perfect ❤️

pictish · 08/10/2022 07:46

Aw lovely! Yay!

Brenna24 · 08/10/2022 07:48

Aww. That is absolutely lovely. 😍 The reply is just perfect too.

Ihatecocomelon · 08/10/2022 07:52

Fantastic update op. Hope you have both found your happy ever after :)

Softplayhooray · 08/10/2022 08:03

Love this!

OneToThree · 08/10/2022 08:22

Wonderful ❤️

peerie · 08/10/2022 08:43

How are you feeling this morning OP? Grin

KermitlovesKeyLimePie · 08/10/2022 08:48

Oh to be teenager again like you OP.