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Just sent a risky text…want to wait with me!

135 replies

Narwhalelife · 07/10/2022 22:31

I have been seeing a guy for just over 3 months, we see each other weekly (due to the distance we live and work etc) and text every day all manner of things from photos of where we are (both been on holiday separately since we met), selfies (normal I’m in the car or out with the dogs etc) to sexy talk, work, whatever we think of really.

Sometimes both of us leave large gaps between replying but usually due to work/commitments etc only hours not days etc. we have messaged everyday since we met.

We share reels, memes etc and today i see a reel - something like ‘the universe gives you the person you need’ - he replied ‘tell me more’ so I took this as an invite to kinda state my feelings (not love!!) but how I really liked him, great sex felt we have a good connection and I’m excited for the future!

so far, message not seen and no reply - we are 2 hours out - first time Iv sent a text bricking it in years 😂

wish me luck ladies!

OP posts:
totallyoutnumbered · 07/10/2022 23:39

Ahhhhhh! That's great 😍😍😍🙌🏻🙌🏻🙌🏻

ThistleSifter · 07/10/2022 23:40

Congratulations op!! 🥂 🍾 ❤️💕

totallyoutnumbered · 07/10/2022 23:40

I bloody love being so excited for total strangers in the internet. My DP thankfully accepts this about me and said "ahhh, that's so lovely for them"🤣

Twinningplus1 · 07/10/2022 23:40

Love this thread

Devon01 · 07/10/2022 23:41

That's made me smile. So happy for you OP. Keep this thread open and report regularly. Let us all live vicariously through your exciting times! Enjoy that gin 💘

MagpieCastle · 07/10/2022 23:41

Yay! That’s a fab response <joins in MN happy dance conga>

Cupofteaonesugar · 07/10/2022 23:41

Ahhhhh yes I love this! Mumsnet can be really depressing when it comes to relationships at times so this is very very nice to read ♥️♥️♥️

What are you going to reply 😀?

MrsTerryPratchett · 07/10/2022 23:43

I hate suspense so good job that bloke!

smine1 · 07/10/2022 23:43

🥰

KosherDill · 07/10/2022 23:43

Wow, what a great outcome!

PorkPieForStarters · 07/10/2022 23:43

Ah, this is the kind of joy the world needs right now!

Congrats, I'm so chuffed for you! 🥂 💕🎉

Blue2021 · 07/10/2022 23:44

Love this thread. Glad you got the message back you wanted OP

22fgjiyt · 07/10/2022 23:44

PorkPieForStarters · 07/10/2022 23:43

Ah, this is the kind of joy the world needs right now!

Congrats, I'm so chuffed for you! 🥂 💕🎉

This 🥳

Narwhalelife · 07/10/2022 23:45

Thanks everyone, resisted the urge to reply with I LOVE YOU, MARRY ME 😂

replied saying that I was really pleased we were on the same page and that I was excited with probably too many 😘 emojis 😂😂

OP posts:
GGGD · 07/10/2022 23:45

Made up for you.

totallyoutnumbered · 07/10/2022 23:46

Narwhalelife · 07/10/2022 23:45

Thanks everyone, resisted the urge to reply with I LOVE YOU, MARRY ME 😂

replied saying that I was really pleased we were on the same page and that I was excited with probably too many 😘 emojis 😂😂

Brilliant. Save that until tomorrow maybe 🤷🏼‍♀️🤣

OldTinHat · 07/10/2022 23:46

How lovely!!

RosalindsAFuckingNightmare · 07/10/2022 23:46

Lovely outcome. He's a keeper OP ❤

teaandtoastwithmarmite · 07/10/2022 23:47

Aww this is lovely.

BEAM123 · 07/10/2022 23:47

Ah that's brilliant,it's so nice to see people happy!

toogoodforthisworld · 07/10/2022 23:48

Ah that's fab!!!!
So happy for you! X

rach2713 · 07/10/2022 23:51

I think i hear wedding bells 👰 🤵💍🎩

FlissyPaps · 07/10/2022 23:52

Where did you guys meet? I’m invested 😍

Please update this thread when you do move in and get married 😂😂

EveryFlightBeginsWithAFall · 07/10/2022 23:52

Oh it's nice to read a happy deating thread! 🤣

Narwhalelife · 07/10/2022 23:52

Honestly thank you all so much for waiting with me - I did think it might be longer for the reply and even the fact he replied so soon (for him) is probably a good thing too!

I’m really happy, phew, that’s out of the way…😂

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