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Just sent a risky text…want to wait with me!

135 replies

Narwhalelife · 07/10/2022 22:31

I have been seeing a guy for just over 3 months, we see each other weekly (due to the distance we live and work etc) and text every day all manner of things from photos of where we are (both been on holiday separately since we met), selfies (normal I’m in the car or out with the dogs etc) to sexy talk, work, whatever we think of really.

Sometimes both of us leave large gaps between replying but usually due to work/commitments etc only hours not days etc. we have messaged everyday since we met.

We share reels, memes etc and today i see a reel - something like ‘the universe gives you the person you need’ - he replied ‘tell me more’ so I took this as an invite to kinda state my feelings (not love!!) but how I really liked him, great sex felt we have a good connection and I’m excited for the future!

so far, message not seen and no reply - we are 2 hours out - first time Iv sent a text bricking it in years 😂

wish me luck ladies!

OP posts:
22fgjiyt · 07/10/2022 23:53

rach2713 · 07/10/2022 23:51

I think i hear wedding bells 👰 🤵💍🎩

Is there a Mumsnet hat we can buy 😂

Narwhalelife · 07/10/2022 23:53

And for your lovely happy messages - it’s a great feeling!

OP posts:
dontgosummer · 07/10/2022 23:53

How lovely , so nice to see love blossom ❤️

MrsElijahMikaelson1 · 07/10/2022 23:54

💓

Peachh · 07/10/2022 23:56

❤️ So cute !

rach2713 · 07/10/2022 23:57

@22fgjiyt 👒 im sure we could make one 😂

Devon01 · 07/10/2022 23:57

@FlissyPaps Where did you guys meet? I’m invested 😍

Please update this thread when you do move in and get married 😂😂

Yeah, we're all invested now. No pressure and obviously not expecting 'outing' details, but if you care to share more about your story, we'd all love to hear.

I'm off to Google fascinators in anticipation of our (virtual) wedding invites

ComeOnThenFanny · 07/10/2022 23:58

Oh now this is lovely and exciting ♥️

Rp735 · 07/10/2022 23:59

So happy for you stranger💓

DontbesuchanarseGlenda · 07/10/2022 23:59

How thoroughly lovely this thread is. One day OP, you’ll have to tell him quite how many women he made happy tonight😁

Devon01 · 08/10/2022 00:05

@DontbesuchanarseGlenda haha, love this

GobbolinoTheWitchesCat · 08/10/2022 00:06

Oh love this!!

RosieRainbow1986 · 08/10/2022 00:08

Such a lovely thread!!! So glad you're both on the same page! Very happy and excited for you! 😊

Hollywolly1 · 08/10/2022 00:08

⚘🌼🌻🌺🥀🌹❤

BitOutOfPractice · 08/10/2022 00:09

Aww that’s just so lovely! No nicer feeling than that early butterflies feeling. Good luck op

JanesBond · 08/10/2022 00:17

Oh wow - so different from the usual ‘I’ve texted a guy’ threads in here!!!

LikeTearsInRain · 08/10/2022 00:29

Congrats OP. When will you next be having a shag? Any special plans for it?

Jibbajabba1 · 08/10/2022 00:34

Yeahy! 🍾🥂

Devon01 · 08/10/2022 00:35

LikeTearsInRain · 08/10/2022 00:29

Congrats OP. When will you next be having a shag? Any special plans for it?

Always one that has to lower the tone.

ToPlayOrNotToPlay · 08/10/2022 00:42

So pleased for you 😍

babyfrenchie · 08/10/2022 00:51

I love everything about this thread 💘

stbew · 08/10/2022 01:13

I'm going through a really painful separation atm @OP but this thread really made me smile! Wishing you lots of laughter, fun and happiness with this man!

Mummyoflittledragon · 08/10/2022 01:33

Ah bless you. 😍

JestersTear · 08/10/2022 01:37

Awww, this is lovely! 😍

Sparklythings1 · 08/10/2022 01:39

Aww so pleased for you OP, ive got butterflies for you 😂 When you do get married, can you please show him this thread?