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What did they say to you that made you immediately end it?

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AlwaysGinPlease · 04/10/2022 19:10

...or decide that was definitely the end?

Inspired by another thread.

Mine was pre DH when a boyfriend at the time said something in a weird baby voice and then kept on when I said stoppp! Killed it.

OP posts:
MacarenaMacarena · 08/10/2022 00:14

DarkShade · 05/10/2022 12:02

I am a complete fucking idiot and am still in this relationship, but have a running list in my head of 'yep, that should have been the end' moments. Including: not talking to me all night on holiday because I accepted a cigarette off a man who was at the resort. Different holiday - throwing my things across the room because I had looked at photos of a man's artwork he was showing people. Called me a whore when he saw a group photo in which a male friend had his arm around my shoudlers (and the shoulders of the man the other side of him!). Angry at me for wanting to go to a mutual friend's party, demanding to know "why are you so horny to go to this fucking party anyway?".

Leaving hospital after giving birth that morning and opening up umbrella to put over newborn, but doing it slowly because I was dazed from just giving birth, he says in disgust "what are you doing that's for the baby, not for you". Will never forget the venom in his voice as he said 'you'. Asking me "why do you never keep yourself nice?" when I was on my way to first meet up with NTC mums after birth. Screaming at me that I am a cunt and a shit mother for not using organic pasta to feed 1 year old.

You are really still with this guy?
He doesn't sound like a keeper...

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