Husband following women on Facebook

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We had a conversation about instagram models earlier on this year
out of curiosity I typed into Facebook his name and clicked on photos to see what he was looking at based on something I read on here
low and behold amongst normal stuff , loads of onlyfans style pictures of women
they aren’t friends it’s more pages I think but following
the likes and images don’t pop up on my newsfeed I really hope they don’t pop up on other peoples 😞

I can’t really bring it up right now, but a lot of the likes are recent id have to bring it up at the right time , I’m just trying to unpack this
in his mind I don’t think he gets it
sorry to offload

I didn’t say ‘anything’s okay’. I said ‘I don’t care what he looks at’ (as quoted in the comment to which you’ve just replied). There’s nothing extreme about that sentence and, as has been stated, your response was bizarre hyperbole.

You were complaining about people not engaging in intelligent debate but seem wholly incapable with engaging with and addressing what’s been said to you. Interesting.

You’ll leave it there, will you? I ‘left it’ several hours ago and you continued to respond and complain about people ‘running away’. So, hyperbole AND hypocrisy.

We don’t need to start a thread. YOU detailed with this nonsense, on the basis of the sentence ‘I don’t care what he looks at’. We’ve just responded to your gibbering. If you want a thread full of people responding to your gibbering, then go start one. Nobody is stopping you.

You made an extreme example by using the word anything

Well, that never happened. Also, you think questions about bestiality are ‘equally extreme’ to ‘anything’s okay’ (which wasn’t ever even said)? Erm, wtf? 😂

There’s nothing to be gained when you just want to talk about an hour sample give to your wording

What does that even mean?!!

Some women dont have an issue. But i do have an issue with my man looking at photos of othrt women like that .. i should be enough. My partner was doing the same liking photos of women 5 years ago and i found it so infurating because he knows i have alot of confidence issues with my body and i felt really disrespected. Then unfortunately for me it got worse because he was texting and sending nude photos and exchanging them with other women. He promised he would never do it again and he lied and did. To this day I don't trust him. I tried to ignore it and I chose to look the other way. There were red flags at the start , after 1 year together I found photos women were sending him on his laptop. Half naked. Wish I left him back then to be honest but he was my first ever boyfriend . We've been together 20 years. It's really hard to throw it away

It's just so grim. Why do women put up with so much shit behaviour from men. Honestly OP, just leave the fucker. He's shown you who he is.

@Bluequilt
all you’ve done is got upset and said you don’t need anyone monitoring or restricting you . You’ve given absolutely zero information on how anyone could know .

Im a tad upset because I have actually. I told you my DH has a cyber crime degree and worked for years tracking down child abuse rings by identifying and forensically analysing child abuse images. And quite frankly your “how could anyone know” a picture is of a child (or animal!) is fucking ridiculous and just what many paedophiles have said in their pitiful defence “oh I couldn’t tell the person in the image was a child, how can you know?!” Yeah right mate. You can tell 99.9% of the time.

You’re upset about your words being ‘twisted’, but claim that you brought up bestiality in ‘direct response’ to something I never said.

It has been explained to you multiple times how the things you’re saying are utterly ridiculous. You are incapable of addressing (and, from your responses, possibly comprehending?) what’s been said to you, so are just ignoring most of it.

Then you have the gall to complain about people not engaging you in ‘intelligent debate’.

You've claimed you were ‘leaving it’ multiple times (what you previously termed ‘running away’), but are still here.

You’ve told people to start a new thread, when the person who needs a new thread is clearly you, but for some reason you are incapable of doing so.

Your posts have become increasingly unintelligible.

You are not doing well, here. Hypocrisy, hyperbole, inconsistency and the complete absence of any reasoned debate. You have my sympathies.

You clearly aren’t doing fine. And I needed exactly none of your comments, yet here we are.

How do you know if he messages someone