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Boyfriends depression is making me unhappy ...

104 replies

redpinklife · 26/09/2022 21:04

We have been together over a year and live together.
He has depression and has thoughts and before we met acted on them.
He won't take his medication and refuses therapy.
He says he has nothing worth being here for.
He won't cuddle me or kiss me ,he won't be affectionate.
He shouts a lot,he doesn't give me the time of day really.
He says I don't listen -I do listen but he twists it and is all woe is me.
It's been 9 months now
He has medication and he won't take it
He goes to work and puts on a happy man act and comes home and is stone Cold to me.
Bad temper and it's getting me down
What do I do to help him?

OP posts:
Musti · 29/09/2022 03:09

So most of your relationship he’s been an arsehole to you but with everyone else he can put on a happy face?

you leave him.

nuttynotty · 29/09/2022 14:47

It's your decision to stay in this shit 'relationships' with a horrible abusive man.

He's fine, he's getting the life he wants and has chosen. He's not going to change, he'll get worse and likely cheat on you as he knows you will accept anything.

frozendaisy · 29/09/2022 14:58

Say this isn't working for me I need my house back so I am not walking on eggshells in the one place that should be my sanctuary.

Leave now.

DPotter · 30/09/2022 14:14

@redpinklife
How are you ?

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