Just an inspirational quote for single women who are struggling...

[OrangeFlowersAreLovely]

If you're amazing you won't be easy, if you're easy you won't be amazing. If he's worth it he will wait. If he doesn't wait... he's not worth it x

Add yours...

'A man is not the prize of a woman's life.'

I don't understand what the first one means by 'easy'🤔
Or if I do, then I don't think that's right

A woman needs a man like a fish needs a bicycle.

I think by 'easy' the op doesn't mean it in a sexual sense but in the sense of being your own woman and sure of your boundaries.

You have the right to end any relationship, at any time, for any reason.

Oh god I don't think that's inspiring at all; I think it's fucking awful.

Although I am both amazing and easy so it's probably not aimed at me!

I assumed that the OP was being sarcastic…

@ohfook It does rather imply that all single women are looking for a man, doesn't it?

Here are a couple of quotes from me - I love living alone, to me its a state of absolute heaven. When people ask in whom do you place your trust, I reply myself.

‘It takes a strong woman to remain single in a world that is accustomed to settling with anything just to say they have something.’

‘I used to think that the worst thing in life was to end up all alone, it’s not. The worst thing in life is to end up with people that make you feel alone.’

Absolutely not slut shaming AT ALL fuck who you like. Get yours! It's about a life partner, someone you enter into an emotional commitment with and expect certain traits from. And let's be honest, whether you like it or not there are a lot of women on here completely undervaluing themselves because of shit partners. That's not an opinion. It's a factual observation.

I don’t think that quote is very inspirational.

I came across this recently and loved it though!

“Women are not rehabilitation centres for poorly raised men.”

don’t know who said it but it hits the nail on the head for me re my ex’s behaviour!

Just googled and it was attributed to Julia Roberts. But I’ll take that with a pinch of salt! And it was badly not poorly - but sentiment remains

That doesn’t address what you mean by the word easy in your OP.

Do you mean the opposite of difficult, or the opposite of chaste?

That's fine if you're not mate. As I say this thread is for the single women who are though 🤙

What does that even mean 'If you're amazing you won't be easy, if you're easy you won't be amazing'? In what context? Either way it's rubbish, sounds like if you're a strong, independent woman with healthy boundaries you'll be hard to deal with? Bollocks.

Wish folk especially other women would stop saying things like this. You CAN be amazing and be a nice person who's not some high maintenance diva.

The only quote/motto i try and by is

" if you are going to do something wrong, do it right"

Everything else is just cheesy crap..

Not helpful in relationships, I apologise 🤣

What did the private message you sent me say OP? I'm guessing it wasn't particularly nice as my account was suspended as a result of you reporting g me. Go on, let's all hear it.

Awaits further suspension 🙄🤣

That's fine if you're not mate

You said struggling. There are more ways to struggle as a single woman than by being unable to find a man.

Mate.

Really? Like what?

You only live once, but if you do it right, once is enough

There are two facts in this life. We are born, and we die. The journey from A to B goes quicker than expected for many, so please make the most of your time by spending it doing productive or interesting stuff, and reserving yourself for interesting people.

When I read this first I thought it said price, 'A man is not the price of a woman's life', as in a man's not worth destroying yourself for.

‘I used to think that the worst thing in life was to end up all alone, it’s not. The worst thing in life is to end up with people that make you feel alone.’ @Bestcatmum this one's so true for me.