Where to begin. I fell in love with him very hard and we ended up pregnant. My daughter is currently 6 months old. He wanted me to abort, I didn't. I know I'm bound to get many-a 'you made your bed, so lie in it' comments - but hear me out. He wants to be part of our daughter's life. He sends mixed messages r.e. romantic feelings all the time. He says he isn't over his ex. He has someone who he's seeing at the moment. I'm moving to a new house soon, and he says excited to be around more and be like a family. We still have sex. Though, this is less frequent and entirely dependent on him initiating as he says he doesn't find me attractive enough post-baby to have regular sex with.
I love him. I only want him. I can't think of being intimate with anyone else. I would love nothing more than to be a family with him. He says he does one day then not the other. I know there's no chance of us being a normal, stable household with his extracurricular relationships and general megalomaniac demeanour. So, how do I move on? While still having him a part of our daughter's life? Your kindness is appreciated.