I am a ‘bitch and a stupid cunt’

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Fallen out with p. He let me down tonight, long story, to exhausted to explain it all. Sorry to drip feed.

he text me I am a bitch.

then came upstairs when I am in bed, told me he leaving me and called me a stupid cunt.

Been together 14.5 years, have 3 kids

Help him pack his bags.

WTF op. Sounds bizarre. Was you both in the house together when he text you? How old is he? 🙈

That’s what I am thinking…

I had one of those. I divorced him. I am happy.

He’s 34. Says nasty things when he is angry. Often calls me names etc. just tonight I realised, it’s not okay.

he is 99% of the time brilliant, just when he looses his temper he calls me names and stuff

It really would be best if he went now. That's no way to talk to a partner. He sounds absolutely horrible. Be strong and let him go.

Have a party when he's gone.

Yes he was downstairs

the thing is, he is so placid 99% of the time. But, if he is annoyed… name calling, breaks things, storms off in his car.

I am now after all these years, exhausted from it

He sounds like a child. I'd boot him out and tell him to grow up. Why's he texting you insults from downstairs?! 🙈🙈 I find that really wierd.

He is childish.

‘ I love you soooo much’ all day every day. Yet we fall out and I am a butch, stupid cunt etc. what is that about? Tells me he hates me and is leaving me.

I don’t ever feel secure, when everything is good I do. As soon as anything is wrong I am the above and he is leaving.

Pack his bags !

Wave him off with a two fingered salute. There’s only one cunt in this relationship and ain’t you.

Sounds exhausting. Tell him "fine, pack your bags" and mean it.

Otherwise, this is what your life will be. Seems a shame and a waste.

It’s manipulation to make you feel like your on eggshells, followed by the pick me dance.
time to sit down and split assets. Show him you mean it.

LTB

I agree it's manipulation 100% and extremely childish. Can't he walk up the stairs to have a normal conversation face to face. My opinion of men is getting worse by the second.

Leave. He's not going to change. Sorry you're experiencing this xxx

I agree, so childish and manipulative.

need to stay strong tomorrow

He's an abusive cunt. Pack his bags and let the trash take its self out.

100% let him leave.

His behaviour, even for the 1% of the time would be a deal breaker for me

You are worth much more than this

Do you want to live with someone wondering when the next time they’re going to kick off like that will be?
What led up to all this? How are things this morning?