Jerkmate

[Tyronegirl]

Just discovered my DP has been on a site called Jerkmate. Does anyone know anything about it? I did a quick search and it seems you can masturbate on line with strangers but is there any chance it is innocent? Can you just watch or do you have to interact?

No idea. Didn't know such a site existed, isn't the Internet an amazing place.

I accept that partners are allowed privacy but it sounds like this is taking it a bit far.

I think by searching online, you found the answer yourself. How the name jerkmate can be innocent ( when it clearly states what it is) is beyond me. What exactly are you asking?

Probably best that you do some more internet research into this Op.

My husband loves beef Jerky so just checked in case it was a site for people who like jerky, decided probably not a site he'd be interested in no beef jerky by the sound of it.

Jerkmate is a forced pop up on many porn sites so if that's in his history that will probably explain it.

No, he’s been on the site - has an account. I hoped someone had been on it and could say a bit about how it works. I’m okay with a bit of porn but this might be crossing a line for me

It's a site where you are expected to wank with strangers with your camera and sound turned on. Yes, you can keep one or both off but then you're just watching a wanking porn video so what the point of joining. It's meant to be for people who want to mutually masturbate with strangers but without the face-to-face physical involvement. Apparently it's free also which is interesting - there must be a profit angle somewhere.

Every day really is a school day. Sadly.

@dropthevipers in one way yes, but I guess if you're not in a relationship (or if you are and your partner has similar interests), then a bit a private relief without anyone getting hurt (hopefully) seems to meet a need. Not dissimilar to sex chat rooms. However, this doesn't sound like the scenario the OP finds herself in and she should really confront her DH for a proper explanation.

It's called "Jerkmate"

How could it be innocent??

Oh I thought it was a term for a work colleague who is a jerk

I was hoping this was about Jamaican Jerk Chicken.

backs out of thread carefully

I thought it was a housemate who was a jerk!

Oh no, my sympathies.
The internet really does bring out the worst in men 😲😭

I’m afraid he has had form for this before. Several years ago he had been on fab swingers - said he only ever used chat rooms and never tried to meet but when I discovered this he said “never again”. I was hoping that this was a bit more innocent but I don’t think so. I mean, why go on it if you’re not going to share images of yourself? I was hoping that someone would be able to convince me it was innocent- this is going to be a great Father’s Day!!!

Looking at the information pages about it, although some of it is free, a lot of it is chargeable and the 'clients' get to wank off to paid cam models (hopefully not trafficked). I'd be checking the bank account OP.

Sorry this is happening to you OP.

So unlike the home life of our dear queen 🙄😏

He is wanking live with strangers. Have you discussed sex addiction with him? Theres a bit of a pattern there.

Put him in the bin and find someone who respects you

Any update OP?

It's called "Jerkmate"

How could it be innocent??

Is it not an online Jamaican food recipe site?

Some things you just can't unread. I really thought this was going to be about a twatty friend

In the interest of 'research', I clicked on the link... only to be faced with a naked young woman, legs akimbo, strumming her clit and dipping her fingers in her vagina. No confusion about what the site is about sadly.

My exh got caught on this site too. It's live masturbation. You can wank and be watched or just do the watching. Chat available too.

I'm sorry OP. It's a step up from porn and very grim. X