I've been in a 6 year rship with my partener we got a 4 year old girl and my son from previous rship.. over the last 2 years I have had to have 4 terminations one was recently and it has totaly put me of sex one because I'm to scared incase I catch again which I have before and 2 because it dont interest me right now my partner gets it but dont really care he wants what he wants and because he dont get it he acts like a child.. causes arguments I'm not myself anymore I dont do the cooking or cleaning as often as I use to ( he never ever cleans the house or cooks) but when his clothes havent been washed he kicks off calls me over in front of our daughter.. I do state that it's his home he can clean and cook aswell as I look after the children and I suffer with my mental health so that gets onto of me most days but his excuse is he works so he dont have to do anything and it's my job. And I'm lazy because I miss a day or 2 from doing it. I've caught him numerous times paying women online to watch them and today confronted him about something he come home from work and has ago at me like it's my fault and then dont speak to me. So me and my daughter goes to ny mothers for a breather and when we come back hes in the shower bathroom door open and is having a good old wank in there.. it disgusts me because our daughter was here she walks in there and catches him is not on! ... hes just so controlling I dont know what to do.. were in a private rented home both names are on tenancy agreement but he wont leave hes trying to chuck me and children out well me and my son as he dont get on with him. I'm so low right now.