You don't treat people well, op.
That's how you showed yourself in the previous thread and what is confirmed by this further insight into what you consider acceptable behaviour towards those you claim to care about.
Firstly, he didn't bother to contact me for six hours after the event.
Was that not the time period where both of you were asleep having been awake all night? Six hours during which you were asleep for 3-4 then having breakfast and travelling home for an hour.
Seems reasonable to wait until you had both rested and returned home actually.
I felt really upset and lashed out verbally via message
That's a shit way to behave, let alone in response to an apology.
Do you think it's ok for you to treat him like that because you're a woman? That's the vibe you give you consistently on your threads.
I expected he would want that in an effort to express his apology and maybe promise that it would never happen again.
That's so manipulative of you.
Why do you expect that men should treat you like some sort of princess to prostrate themselves before? I wondered the same on your previous thread about the non-event.
Were you going to apologise to him at any point for lashing out and being manipulative? Were you going to show remorse and promise not to do it again?
He simply said ...I thought you didn't want contact and now you want to meet me..???.'
Well yes. You told him to leave you alone and now you expect him to want to meet you to beg for forgiveness? 
What is he up to here ?
Reacting like any normal human being would react to such unpleasant and manipulative behaviour.