New name for "absent" fathers

[WorkHardPlayHard1]

I'm sick to the back teeth of how we allow "absent fathers" to be normalised in society. "It happens all the time" etc👦🏻
How about we have a new name for any man that leaves the mother of their child (for another woman or pastures new) and doesn't provide any more care, contact or monetary support to pay for food, clothing, warmth.🍳
Meanwhile the single Mum has the burden to do all the caring, cooking, clothing, cleaning, support on her own. Plus single mums are looked down by society yet they are angels. 😇
There's also the men who go around fathering multiple children to many women then move on to the next woman til she gets pregnant.There's not much lower than that imo? To abandon an innocent child. If enough of us use it. It can become a new (slang) word in the dictionary.

Shall we call them cockroaches?

I call mine a dead beat dad. Cockroaches are too strong in my opinion.

My dcs dad is in their lives but only because his mum and dad make sure he is. He deals with nothing and takes them to McDonald's/greggs/kfc every other weekend when he has them as he can't be bothered to even cook for them. Obviously the dcs think he is the best thing ever as he doesn't do any of the hard parenting stuff and they get to eat as much crap as they like while I'm the one that stuff veg in their mouths (not literally obvs)

I call him a 'fun uncle'

Any word to describe a man who is no part of their childs/rens life should not have the word father/dad/parent in it because that's not what they are.

I'd go with 'waste of fucking space'

I’ve been thinking of a new name to call my ex, he doesn’t see our kids at all so saying “your dad/father” always seems a bit off as he’s never been any sort of father to them!

Perpetrator of child negligence.

What about 'that cunt'??

@stinkycheeseman

What about 'that cunt'??

Isn't that disrespecting to women though? 🧐

@stinkycheeseman

What about 'that cunt'??

Cunts are warm and inviting places where miracles happen

(Sadly not my words, I read it on MN) so no. Dead beat dad is preferable as agree with pp that cockroachs are too strong

Sperm donor

Just waiting for the inevitable "Not all dads blah blah blah, some women..." bullshit that usually trots up on here.

Should make it illegal like America not to financially or otherwise contribute towards your children's lives.
Too many people excuse the dead beats and normalise it.

Fucking loser covers it

Dead beat loser

Sperm don't-ater

That is they don't do anything of worth for their child past the orgasm.

Worthless fucker?

Absolute bellends?

I have my girls useless deadbeat abusive one stored in my phone as the "oxygen thief"

Mr Nobody?

I called mine the babysitter, turned up two Saturdays a month, literally did a bit of supervising but no actual parenting and dropped them off after tea on a Sunday. He's now walked away totally so I have no names for him, he doesn't exist as far as I'm concerned

Numnutts is my word of choice.

My daughter calls her dad sperm donor.

He who shall not be named

Twat!

My grown up daughter calls her absent father 'Jim the wanker' she won't use the word Dad or Father. My friend calls her absent ex Darth (as in Darth Vader)

My "father" and my DS's "father" are both called the sperm donors.

Sperm donor