If you saw a preview of your relationship before your first date

[AlwaysFuckingTired94]

Would you go?

If so, or not, why?

Nope. He’s currently giving me the silent treatment again. It’s disgusting behaviour and once it starts and they learn that thus gets them what they want it never stops.

Yes, without hesitation.

Yes almost 12 years together and although it's been hard he is the best fiancé and dad I could have asked for! Couldn't imagine not having him in my life at all

No I wouldn’t as I’d be aware that those small seemingly one-off instances of him not wanting sex by claiming he was tired/stressed were actually red flags and he had major hang ups about sex.

I’d never have agreed to a relationship where he imposed celibacy on me.

Oh god yes, I'd be even keener!

I don't know what I'd do without DH, he's my best friend and my rock.

Lots of mixed responses here.

Hindsight is a wonderful thing. I think it was the right choice at the time and I have my lovely dc who I wouldn't be without. Also financial stability. However, fast forward to now and there isn't enough of an emotional connection. Some of our values are different and we don't share any interests. So yes but I wouldn't make the same choice now in the time and place I am sadly.