I've been doing a lot of thinking about my past relationships and my current one too which I'm planning on ending and I always end up with horrible partners.
And I think it's because of my issues of low self worth. I think I just "settle" with any man that seems ok but deep down I know they are not. I ignore what on MN you would call red flags. I'm embarrassed that I have let people treat me so badly. People would think I have a great relationship and I know they will be shocked on hearing we've split but to the outside would dp is so so different. I fucking hate it.
I think subconsciously I "aim low" as I know ill never get a decent, loving man.
Does anyone back up my theory of people with esteem / confidence issues have shit partners.