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Leaving note

280 replies

Waaahbaby · 30/12/2021 08:45

In a few weeks I will be gone with the children, he doesn’t know and neither do they yet.
My plan is to collect them from school and take them to new house. I can’t sit down and talk with him so he will return to an empty house. What do I write in the note to say we have gone? He’s been abusive and controlling for years and I fully expect a backlash.

OP posts:
tiredmummy198 · 21/01/2022 08:25

Good luck. You've got an army of mumsnetters behind you Smile

2DogsOnMySofa · 21/01/2022 08:25

First day of the rest of your life Thanks

MrsRubyMonday · 21/01/2022 08:25

Good luck, I hope everything goes as planned for you xx

Annonymiss123 · 21/01/2022 08:29

Sending you strength and good wishes. 💐

Buildingthefuture · 21/01/2022 08:38

Good luck op. Stand firm, we are all rooting for you and cheering you on xxxx

OrlandointheWilderness · 21/01/2022 08:40

Thinking of you OP

WitchDancer · 21/01/2022 08:48

I hope today goes well for you Thanks

Kshhuxnxk · 21/01/2022 08:48

Just found this thread. OP you're stronger than you know and you will blossom being free. Good luck for today, it might be difficult but you'll get there.

Hogwarts4Christmas · 21/01/2022 08:54

Wishing you all the best and hoping things go smoothly. Flowers

Fillybuster · 21/01/2022 08:55

Good luck @Waaahbaby - you can do this Thanks

Cleopatracat · 21/01/2022 09:19

Best wishes xxx

TurtleBackUp · 21/01/2022 09:20

Good luck OP.

You got this.

BarryTheKestrel · 21/01/2022 09:24

Good Luck today OP!

I hope it all goes smoothly for you.

BackInBlackAgain · 21/01/2022 09:28

Good Luck for today, you've got this xx

Blueysmom · 21/01/2022 09:31

I don't know you but I'm proud of you! Good luck for it going all smoothly and enjoy your first night in your new home Flowers

Littleheart5 · 21/01/2022 09:33

Very best of luck OP X

FelicityPike · 21/01/2022 09:33

Good luck for today and the rest of your brand new lives!
Proud of you.

CustardGoodJamGoodMeatGood · 21/01/2022 09:35

Good luck OP, hope things go as smooth as they can! You can do thisFlowers

Ohmybod · 21/01/2022 09:37

Good luck OP. You are doing an amazing thing for you and your children (from someone who’s mother was never brave enough to to leave).

25summers · 21/01/2022 09:39

Good luck OP. There is an army of us behind you! Wishing you all the best in your new, HAPPY future xx

Staryflight445 · 21/01/2022 09:41

Wishing you all the best today op.
I hope it gos well with the kids.

Pipsquiggle · 21/01/2022 09:44

Good luck OP - you are amazing. Stay strong

Emmelina · 21/01/2022 09:45

@Waaahbaby

Thank you. Today is the day.
The best of luck sweetheart. Do let us all know when you’re settled and safe.
Tiredmummyof3 · 21/01/2022 09:46

Good luck OP. Please let us know how you get on x

Dimebag10M · 21/01/2022 09:55

Good luck!!

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