I’m not in contact with my ex, we have children but he doesn’t bother with them. I’ve always felt he was more interested in me than them, as we are not in a relationship he doesn’t bother with them and only seemed to want to see them if he could see me, when he couldn’t he wouldn’t see them. Anyway today he text me saying “merry Christmas to you and the kids, I love you lots” am I being paranoid or is this a weird thing to send an ex? Especially one you don’t have any contact with and don’t bother with your children, am I reading too much into it? Family always use to make out It was in my head that he’s more interested in me so no it doesn’t matter because he’s an ex but it would be nice to know if it’s weird or not.