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Caught him in the act

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Life4livingnk · 18/12/2021 18:27

Well I'm in total shock.

I went out with my friend last night, my boyfriend was at a friends party so he says.

I had a strange feeling so drove too his house on my way home. His door was open, I walked up stairs and found him in bed with another girl ! I say girl
As she could only have been in her 20's
Both naked , 2 and a half years ... one son together!
Utterly knocked off my feet ! How can I ever stop seeing that
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me4real · 18/12/2021 18:29

Why would the front door be open?

storminateacupagain · 18/12/2021 18:30

@me4real

Why would the front door be open?
I presume OP means unlocked
LadyWithLapdog · 18/12/2021 18:32

What did he say?! I mean not that there's much to say in the circumstances.

Santahatesbraisedcabbage · 18/12/2021 18:34

Well i hope he is an exbf...
And a homeless one at that.

Santahatesbraisedcabbage · 18/12/2021 18:34

Ah see you don't live together.. Well that's lucky for you..
What an utter twat he is op.

lessthanathirdofanacre · 18/12/2021 18:38

Oh, dear. How incredibly shocking.

Momijin · 18/12/2021 18:46

Wow. How come you don't live together if you have a child?

Hen2018 · 18/12/2021 18:47

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girlmom21 · 18/12/2021 18:55

How did you know they were both naked?

MrsTerryPratchett · 18/12/2021 18:58

@Hen2018

Did you, aye...
Mmmm hmmmmm
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wishymore · 18/12/2021 19:03

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Inthesameboatatmo · 18/12/2021 19:06

Absolute prick

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IncompleteSenten · 18/12/2021 19:11

That's a huge shock but at least he can't lie his way out of it.
Hopefully you have ended the relationship.

feelsobadfeltsogood · 18/12/2021 19:16

I'm sorry but you've been together 2.5 years and have a son and you don't live together?
He's not that committed to you or your son
End the relationship and move on I'd say

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TheCatWearsPrada · 18/12/2021 19:41

That's awful @Life4livingnk i read your last thread and hoped you were going to move on. You gave him a second chance but please don't give him a 3rd Flowers

BoredZelda · 18/12/2021 19:42

Even in her 20s, she isn’t a girl.

gofigureit · 18/12/2021 19:57

In a way it's good you know for sure, then he can't lie or minimise what's happened.

Honestly being single isn't so bad you would put up with this crap

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