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Caught him in the act

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Life4livingnk · 18/12/2021 18:27

Well I'm in total shock.

I went out with my friend last night, my boyfriend was at a friends party so he says.

I had a strange feeling so drove too his house on my way home. His door was open, I walked up stairs and found him in bed with another girl ! I say girl
As she could only have been in her 20's
Both naked , 2 and a half years ... one son together!
Utterly knocked off my feet ! How can I ever stop seeing that
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Sideswiped · 18/12/2021 20:46

@Kebabandchipsplease; lots of troll-hunters. Not in the spirit of MN sadly.

Hen2018 · 18/12/2021 21:06

The man in the OP is single. There are many posts about this from September onwards.

gamerchick · 18/12/2021 21:15

Can't make head nor tail of this man. More posts deleted than left up.

OP please make this bloke a permanent ex. He's not going to make you happy. You've been chewing over him for months, it's not healthy. You deserve some peace of mind.

IamGusFring · 18/12/2021 21:20

I walked in on a BF and another woman many many years ago . No woman no cry was playing 😂 I dumped his sorry arse then and there . I can still picture it .

AnneLovesGilbert · 18/12/2021 21:27

I posted on your last thread where he’d left you. So I’m not sure why you went into his house or why you think he’s cheating. He broke up with you months ago and you weren’t really together before that.

What’s going on OP?

Bananalanacake · 18/12/2021 22:36

I thought op meant he has a son with the woman he was in bed with.

GrazingSheep · 18/12/2021 22:57

You posted in September that you weren’t together, that he had left you. So this is really a non-event

girlmom21 · 18/12/2021 23:01

Surely they could have decided to work things out in the last 3 months...

OP just get rid of him once and for all.

AnneLovesGilbert · 18/12/2021 23:17

@Bananalanacake

I thought op meant he has a son with the woman he was in bed with.

No. It’s theirs.

AppleOpple · 18/12/2021 23:22

I suspect an OW...
and probably a porn habit

MsDogLady · 19/12/2021 07:55

OP, in September he broke up with you because of lack of sex, but that excuse didn’t hold water because he wouldn’t let you stay over at his house and he wouldn’t stay over at yours, even though he has always been welcome. He just wasn’t committed to family life. You two have led completely separate lives, except for your little son.

Had you reunited and spent more time together since September?

I’m very sorry that you had to witness that shocking scene. What did this Prize have to say for himself? Surely this is the death knell of your relationship.

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